Advice needed

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by Daisy90, Aug 19, 2025 at 3:03 PM.

  1. Daisy90

    Daisy90 Newbie

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    Good evening from the UK.

    Married female of three years but I'm starting to crave experiencing being with a female.

    I am unsure of how to approach this situation.

    What advice would you give to someone who is curious..
     
  2. fem_fatale

    fem_fatale Members

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    In my opinion, your first conversation should be with your partner.
     
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  3. wooleeheron

    wooleeheron Brain Damaged Lifetime Supporter

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    Curiosity killed the cat and, if you're uncertain, its best to re-examine the Big Picture.

    I'm learning to fly, but I ain't got wings. Coming down, is the hardest thing.
     
  4. KathyL

    KathyL Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Right answer!
     
  5. Constantine666

    Constantine666 Members

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    1. Have a long discussion with your Husband.
    2. If you can both agree, then work out rule as well as place, time and method to experiment.
    3. Make it clear whether or not you want him to be involved.
    4. If you allow his involvement DO NOT throw a tantrum when he touches her and accuse him of cheating.
    5. Personally, I find involving a 3rd party into a committed relationship a bad idea from the start.
     
  6. Mark769

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    I agree and would add, do not avoid the discussion because it is uncomfortable. Only you know how willing you are to dip your toe into same sex play. Best Mark
     

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