So I'm a virgin, and when I masturbate it is very easy, with good motivation it can possibly take less than 20-30 seconds. I am worried that when I first have sex I will finish too quickly. Things I know so far are that I can bend my knees and masturbate prior to sex. What else can I do to make sure I last longer?
Think about fat sweaty men, and if you jizz then oh well... hopefully she'll forgive you and better luck next time. This is why you should only have sex with people you love and save yourself the embarrassment
Haha well I'm having sex to have fun, thinking about sweaty men doesn't exactly make it better. I just need some tips for techniques or preparations to make it easier to contain...
If your dick is so used to your hand, you may be in for a surprise. Don't listen to Seized she has fat sweaty men on the mind.
what does masturbating with bent knees do? wouldn't you be saving yourself more embarrassment if you had bad sex with someone you don't give a fuck about?
well not just masturbating but in general most people including me find that its easier to cum with straight legs than bent knees.
no, I'd imagine that that would be extremely embarrassing, but I've only had sex with people I care about and I'm forgiving
Right-and if you are having sex with someone you love, and you want her to come before you, just train yourself when you're masturbating to edge-hold off coming for quite a while-it's good experience for sex you'll have later
Kegel exercise has been known to help also. I'm a virgin too, and I DO know my performance won't be all that great until I get at least semi used to the actual intercourse, so I'm not really worried about it. Instead, I try to do what I can to prepare myself, if you will. Kegel and Tantric masturbation are the two things I think may help. Of course, nothing beats having a loving partner who will help you gain endurance. All the best.
