My wife commented on how I have changed since I have been enjoying her Strapon and occasional get together with my Bi Friend. I used to get all pissy faced and had a nasty attitude. Because of my positive attitude change, my level of Sexual Satisfaction has gone from 0 to 100, since I have explored alternate means. My own stupidity has prevented me from realzing the potential of learning and exploring the pleasures that awaited. I'll admit that it was well worth the awakening. With No Reason to misbehave, my blood pressure has dramaticly reduced too. Have you reflected on things that inhibited the well being of you and your wife.
My wife says she sees a difference in my personality when I'm not having sex on a regular basis. She has even stated a few times, you need to get some dick and get out of this funk you are in. I've returned home after a very satisfying threesome with two other guys, and she sees a difference in me. Somehow, she knows, she'll ask..."How was it"? I just reply, damn I really needed that.
Been there before. That is why my wife suggested it. She said I was frustrated Any Orgasm is good for my Blood Pressure and Prostate Health.
I'm frustrated almost constantly. No pussy for some 18 years, and that was a short fling with a woman I met online. ED out of stress and depression meant my only option was cock sucking which I enjoy. Even when she would suck and pull me my state of mind was better. I was on top of the world again when I was sucking cocks with someone with his own place. Have to find another one.