My husband and I have had anal sex a few times. I could probably count on one hand the amount of times that we've done it. Honestly, neither one of us are really that into it. I don't think we've done it in about 7 years, and we've been together for 9 years. I was the one to even suggest it in the first place for something new to try. I mean, the times we did it weren't bad, but I found it rather painful despite lubrication, and, sorry if this is too graphic, but I highly disliked the enema effect afterwards. My husband also says he prefers the normal route as opposed to the "back door" route. That's my experience with it.
Hi Jus wanna say...i wanna try that with my girlfriend...is it dangerous and by the way does it make ur shit come out fast plz enlighten me wid ur wisdom of how 2 start it of thansk X
Me and my ex used to try to do it. It was sexy to stimulate the anus (for both of us!) but I can't handle anything being inserted. No thank you.
:& i feel embarrased to say it, but i have done it, and i liked it. when used a lot of gel, so it wouldnt hurt... It was really nice... but i dont think i will do it again... it also feels like im just an object to fuck and nothing else... I dont like doggy-style for the same reason...
You certainly can't get pregnant that way. But you damn well better make him wear a condom nonetheless. AIDS isn't the only disease that can be transmitted through anal sex. -- Skeeter
the girl that i mess around with thinks that anal sex is what defines a slut pretty much, which i dont agree with...ive never done it, dont have any desire to, but if i had the chance i wouldnt turn it down
<raises hand> Haven't done it yet, but will eventually. I used to have not a shred of interest in that hole, but now as I have gotten older I dunno what happened, but I find it sexy. It's cute and vulnerable and sensitive. The other hole is used also for pissing, you know... what's the big deal? You don't do it when the girl is in need of taking a shit, first of all. Second, I see it simply as another way to be intimate and to fully know the other person's body and feelings. It's something to share, and it expands the realm of things you've experienced together, so for that reason alone I think it's cool. I don't think it's anything to be embarrassed about at all. Nothing about sex should be embarrassing. If you're intimate with a partner enough to be naked in bed together, then there should be nothing you aren't willing to touch or kiss or lick or do. The human body is not gross. -Jeffrey
I know a girl, not someone I'm involved with, just a good friend... she says she LOVES anal; that she comes from it; that it hits a whole different set of nerves inside her and stimulates a different kind of orgasm. She raves about it. Of course, she's a wild kinky chick. The best kind! -Jeffrey
Some girls are sluts, but it's not because of what sexual acts they will engage in. It's because they are loose about who they will do it with, and how many guys, and what they let it or don't let it mean to them. A girl in a relationship with a guy who has anal sex -- or does anything else with him in the context of intimacy, trust, and love -- is not a slut for doing it. They have nothing to do with each other. -Jeffrey
Why would you allow a simplistic, peurile cliche govern what you allow yourself to do for sexual enjoyment? Some idiot said that way back when, and it caught on, and now people live by it because they're not willing to think into it. Um, BABIES come out of a PUSSY. I guess we shouldn't have sex with pussies, then. -Jeffrey
its ntoe ven worth it jeff. tried it a couple times with a chick i cared alot about, but it jsut plain doesnt feel good. some chicks like it and some chicks dont, but as a guy i dont see how any man can get off from it. its not gross or anything, but its not stimulating.
I don't see how it could not feel good for the guy involved... It's a tighter hole, man! That's worth somethin'! Seriously, I do know that some girls really get something good from it, like it really gets some girls off! I haven't done it yet, but I'm definitely up for it, and I think it'll be cool. What I can't understand is, good sensations or not, some people are opposed to it strictly, it seems, because of the fact that its the pooper. I say, big deal. Poop is just chemically processed food, anyway. I'm not a fan of it, by any means, but it's not the end of the world to get a little on your dick. And if she goes to the bathroom beforehand, you might not even get that much. -Jeffrey
i had anal sex once it was gross.. her ass wouldnt close when we were done and she walked hella funny..