Another love advice thread.

HAHAHAHA omg thats so fucking sick hahahaha. I will for sure date you, Meli!





Anyways, talked to him last night. I told him everything (even about snooping through his phone) and he wasnt even mad at all about it. I told him that I wouldn't doubt it if he didn't trust me around his personal shit anymore and he said thats not the case and he still trusts me and that wasn't a really big deal. BUT it turns out that the girl in his phone who I thought was his ex texting him was some OTHER girl with the same name who he used to fuck. So I was SUPER fucking pissed even worse cause it was just pretty much some random chick.
He said that he would delete that girls number and stuff and he did, and he admitted that it was really wrong to do and he feels bad for hurting me as bad as he did. I guess things are cool now, but Ima still be suspicious a little bit probably for awhile.

We're working on things though, we both agreed there is NO trust in our relationship and we're going to work on that because he said he really wants to be with me.

 

Well, just found out I was right.. it really was his ex. I don't know why he tried lying to me about that?
I texted him and told him I'm done unless he cuts it off with her. I told him it hurt me and he still lied to my about it.

 

Ya I question why he would lie about that when you said you were honest with him about looking in his phone and that you felt bad about it. Did he come clean or how did you find out otherwise?

 

Well, I am sorry about things. You are young, I know you will find the right person for you. Just remember, you will know when it happens. Just let it happen, don't look for it. I was already married when I was your age. I do and don't regret that because I thought this was the right person for me at the time. Sometimes things change. Look at it this way, you get to meet and get to know more people.

 

He did come clean and say it was a girl he used to bang and he shouldn't of been saying those things.

Thank you for your advice

 

I was actually asking if he came clean about him lying when he said it was another girl with the same name and not his ex, or did you find out it was actually his ex after all by some other means.

 

Oh, sorry! I asked him about it and he said that it definitely wasn't his ex girlfriend, but I pretty much can't find out for sure cause he deleted both their numbers from his phone. So I'm just going to drop it. He's cutting all ties off with his ex anyway so I might as well let it be and move on.

 

Ahh I see. Well, I hope all goes well then.

 

Thank ya

 

date meli.

 

I think I just may

 

ok so he lied to you AGAIN about it, and you're still dating him? you sure are forgiving
i wouldn't trust him about it at all. i mean he keeps lieing to you about everything. of course he's not going to stop talking to his ex, he's just going to hide it from you better. don't be stupid!

 

love your signature
fucking epic picture

 

But he told me he's going to get ahold of her and tell her to quit talking to him and stuff. I told him if he doesnt, I'll do it myself hahah. So I'm sure if he tells her, they won't be talking anymore!

Hahaha it makes me sick.. but I love it

 

i think you should do it yourself. again, i really don't see how you can trust him. he's only saying this because you caught him. it doesn't sound like it was just her talking to him but more like him talking to her.
he says he can't trust you but you're not the one that's doing anything untrustworthy. if he sincerely cared for you and only wanted to be with you then he wouldn't be doing any of this bullshit. he's a guy and he's trying to get as much action as he can. don't come crying when he cheats on you

i mean, do what you want. if you want a boyfriend and only want him then just believe him and live in a lie of a relationship. if you're strong and independent then go get another guy, which you definitely can.

whatever it is you decide to do, just make sure you're happy. ok?

 

i'd give you rep if i wasn't so lazy...

 

Thanks, Greg


I think I am going to give him this chance.. but if I catch him again I'm done, for real. He said he only wants to be with me, and that he'll do anything to make it known to me. He said he loved me and I told him to prove it.. and he said that he is really going to try. We'll see what happensss

 

really crack down on him for a little while. be big brother, keep an eye on him. if he does something sneaky or suspicious then know that something's up. good luck!

lol asshole

 

Oh I am... Do you honestly think he's still gonna try to talk to her? He assured me that they would never be back together and that I absolutely have nothing to worry about.......

 

yeah i kinda do think he will. i mean, he obviously wants to and so does she. i would think that even if he is telling you the truth, which i doubt he is since he's lied about EVERYTHING else so far (even "oh yeah that's not my ex... just uhhh the same name...), that his ex is going to still try to talk to him and he could definitely cave under her seduction, she's trying to get him and if she's as hot as he says then it'll be pretty easy for her.

i mean if i was doing this i'd tell my gf the same thing just to get her off my back and then just keep doing my thing and hide it better cause now i would know what to do to hide it. delete the messages and shit, that's all he has to do.

edit: i'm not trying to get you to break up with him. i just don't want you to be stupid and then something happens like he sleeps with her and then you get your heart broken even worse