As long as he hasn't done anything with her it doesn't really matter. Texting is all bullshit. Hell as long as the two people love each other there's nothing wrong with them doing stuff with other people (if they choose that).
I didn't realize it was an open relationship, and if you don't see where it is wrong for this type of inappropriate text regardless if you "physically" did something or not then I feel sorry for your partner.
Ya it'd definitely not an open relationship.. i don't want him fucking around with other people while we're dating.
He's playin u girl, and thats the defense mechanism turnin shit around to avoid the real problem. I know it's been said already but you should take other ppl's advice and DUMP THE DOUCHE
"DUMP THE DOUCHE! DUMP THE DOUCHE!" heres a stack of signs, everyone picket! i guess we could stab him with the signs too....
DUMP THE DOUCHE! DUMP THE DOUCHE! *pickets* Oh we'll march day and night, til the end of the hour! He has the bitch, but Sara has the power....
you know... you can say whatever you want to him. you went out of your general comfort zone, and peeked in his texts. BIG DEAL. it wouldn't matter, obviously, if he hadn't done anything worth hiding. my only qualm.. his ex has been saying those things to him, but what has he been saying back? d: that's really the important thing. she might want him, and be saying these things, while he's just ignoring her or blowing her off. yaknowwW?!
DUMP THE DOUCHE! DUMP THE DOUCHE! *hands out buttons to everyone in SL* *starts a chant* Hey hey! Ho ho! Sara's douche has got to go! Hey hey! Ho ho! Sara's douche has got to go!
That doesn't matter at all. He has a penis and the other person has a vagina. Anyone who has a penis is automatically cheating when they talk to another vagina... Haven't you ever watched a teen drama show? jeeeez
See, my whole qualm is the fact that he shouldn't have allowed his ex to keep saying those things to him. And he is. Which leads any rational person to assume that he's doing something shady. If some dude kept sending me those kinds of texts I'd block him off my facebook and from my phone. I'd make it known that it's not cool to say that shit to me anymore, but it's obvious this guy likes the attention he's getting from his ex.