I get angry a lot, I like hearing stories about other angry people who lose their tempers all the time - About six months ago I ordered a pizza and when I went to the shop to pick it up I had to drive around for about 10 minutes then I finally saw a free carpark and indicated to go in and some old rich bitch in an SVU sped into the car park completely cut me off and went into the park. When I got her attention I yelled at her through the window something like "YOU FUCKING BITCH, YOU FUCKING BITCH, I JUST WANT TO GET A FUCKING PIZZA" but my windows were closed so she just saw me ranting like a lunatic. I sat there in my car for about a minute or so glaring at her and she was too afraid to get out of the car. Eventually I drove off to get a park which was really far away from the pizza shop and I walked as fast as I could towards her so I could give her my piece of mind and it turned out she was getting out with her shopping bags and walking towards the supermarket, which has free parks right in front of it. As soon as she spotted me walking towards her she ran away so that I couldn't catch her, so I calmed down and got my pizza and had to walk all the way back across the fricken shopping complex just to get a fucking pizza. I was angry for the rest of the day. I have made customer's cry at work and I have got into fights on the bus for telling racist bitchy people to shut the fuck up. I am currently dealing with my anger problem, and doing pretty well. Any other angry folks out there?
I get angry but I am so passive agressive that it never lasts . This one time I got so mad at this guy because he is a total fake and a liar. I can't stand people that lie. I wish I had the testicular fortitude to stand up for myself more.
Oh man I feel your pain. I get so freakin' mad all the time but I just never express it. I just hate the world so much because of crazy people who do stupid dumb things like steal your parking spot (in your case), cut in line, or other really idiotic childish stupid things. Grr! Makes me want to strangle somebody!!! I mean who the HECK do they think they are?!
I guess the way I see it is; I have exactly the same flaws as the people around me.. some learn to manipulate good natured people (which is about the only thing that makes me angry), some try and live up to the 'every man for himself' ideology, but most are just naive in some form or another.. there is a reason behind most actions, and I think it's a mistake to ignore that and let your own importance or philosophy overshadow theirs.. anger after all is a 'feedback loop', it's something that's possible to overcome it if you're prepared to let go of the feeling of security/power you're most likely going to gain from it.
hey angry is healthy it feels good to b angry from time to time but wen it doesnt feel good and makes u feel like shit check out this poem by william blake "A poison tree" it could help solve a problem ciao
i actually never get angry, i'm so calm and lackadaisical about life. i'm the person that people ALWAYS cut off because i'm too busy looking at the faces in the mountains or whatnot. i live in my own head and i don't pay unecessary attention to people who are not worth my time. but really though, i just never get angry, i don't know why! unless it's creeps who try to hit on me as i'm going along my daily life, then i want to punch people.
i'm a realtively angry individual, but i tend to keep it inside and not make a fuss about it. I hope anger does not have a presure-cooker effect cos if it did, oh man.
I am pretty similar to you, but i have a big problem, I always think about other people. I could be dozing along but as soon as someone around me has the tiniest need which i can just make that tiny bit of effort to help them then I always do. That is, I always let people in to my lane and I'm always really considerate to shop assistants who have to deal with shit all day, I help people jump start their cars, I give people lifts, I just do lots of little things because I figure there is nothing to lose in being just that little bit nice whenever you can, I NEVER cut in front of people who find a parking spot first, especially if I just got there. Unfortunately this means I expect the same from other people, but at least half of the general population, especially anyone over 25, won't give an inch to help others because they're too bent on self preservation. I get really cynical. I'm starting to get better now. I realise now that the solution isn't getting angry at those people, its spreading our own kindness instead. But then again, you cant come between a man and his pizza.
