Any other bi guys feel like they seem too straight?

Any other bi guys feel like they seem too straight to attract other guys? Maybe its from suppressing it for so many years but I feel like I come off as too straight, my voice is rather deep so this may be part of it, but still i feel uncomfortable acting anything other than how i feel. Any body else find this annoying?

 

i feel similar. I have to act differently around different people because being a bi male makes most people uncomfortable. I find that the more I have to act around those people, the less i can actually be myself when im not around them. I dont feel bi around most people because of this.

In all honesty, i think i just need an outlet. Somewhere or someone who I can be myself around no matter what, and not feel like im something wrong. I am lucky that I have someone like this, but they live too far away for it to make a difference.

 

I am actually gay and find it partly a nuisance. In fact, it sometimes feel isolated from the gay scene entirely because of it.

I have spent more time convincing other like minded individuals of my orientation, than strait people. I always thought it was the other way around, since I expected grief from more hetro friends and instead got accepted entirely.

It doesn't bother me though, I don't feel I could pull of being camp or what have you. In fact, in terms of bisexuality- I am finding it hard to find ways in which you really could show this side of yourself, without well, you know

If you feel uncomfortable acting anything but how you are, then changing would definitely would seem to be just another kind of annoyance. Bit of a double edged sword really.

 

Act how you want to act, dont try to act as you are not.

I am not noticeably gay, and its hard finding other gay guys because im into other non-noticeables. Trying making some gay or lesbian friends and start networking. Thats what i did. I met a lesbian girl at school and we became friends. She then introduced me to this guy. i hope it works out, things are looking good so far.

if you are around a guy you are interested, just get a little flirty. I am sure another gay or bi guy would be able to notice it