Wow, this is my first time asking for sexual advice, but I wouldn't be here unless I really needed it, yeah... STOP RAMBLING! Okay here goes: I have very little experience with giving oral sex (to a guy). Seriously, I've done it, like, three times in my life and that was well over a year ago. My thing is, I can never finish the job because I have this horrible gag reflex. It's all I can do to suppress it as long as I can, and I'm not even talking about a fear of swallowing. I just get to a point where I can't take it anymore and just choke on it. So, my first question is, is there any way to lose the gag reflex? Is there perhaps a way to practice? Second (not so different) question is, is there a way I can practice swallowing? I really really really want to, but it seems even the precum is enough to gag me. Should I start drinking heavy gravy or something to get used to the texture/salty taste/ect? Lol, half-serious suggestion I just made, there. As you all can see, I'm pretty clueless about it all Please excuse my frankness, but I figured the chances were pretty slim of me being stoned (ya know, with rocks) to death here...
You dont have to take his cock in ur hrought is thats wat ur wondering, and i would suppose cumn would be an acuired taste if you want to go ahead, i dunno
Well, I wish I could help you practice, (ok, it is a brand new thread and I know someone else will say this if I don't).. lol Your willingness to be a good student says a whole lot. Don’t be in a hurry, and don’t worry about the "stuff". There are two reactions that are agreeable with most men. One is of course for you to swallow, the other is to allow the cum to act as a lubrication to finish the "job". Finishing is the important part, whether you use your hand or your mouth, at this point we wont argue, JUST DON'T STOP. Another thought, the taste buds are on the tip of your tongue and I hear you taste less if he cums deeper in your mouth. I can only suggest this from what I have been told. Not having perform this act, nor am I a doctor, someone else will have to verify if this is true. Of course the women here are better resources for information about how to DO IT, the men can tell you how it FEELS. (and some can do both.. lol)
Erm, thanx for the offer, but mine is not an open relationship. Thanx anyway (though I'm not sure your intentions were based solely on helping me practice, lol).
My advice would be, "walk before you run." Every guy wants that perfect blow-job where the person giving the blow-job takes it down their throat and swallowes his cum to the very last drop and than some. However that is NOT reality. First learn how to just suck the head and as much of the shaft as you can handle comfortably. Taking it down your throat will happen all on its own in time, the more self confident you become the more you will enjoy yourself and the passion for sucking will grow and little by little you will be taking his dick down your throat with ease. (Just to be funny) If you feel you need to learn how to deep throat a guy quickly my advise would be for you to have a few drinks or herb or both and than invite a few of your male friends over. As far as "the taste" goes it all depends on what the guy has been eating, for example broccoli will give the semen a more pungent odor/taste. I don't remember for absolute certainty but I do believe it all has to do with his body Ph plus other influences of course like overall health, how much water he drinks, etcetera. PS remember the ole saying, "how do you get to Carnegie hall??...Practice Practice Practic. Also Texplayboy brought up a very important point, whatever you do when he starts cuming DON'T stop!!
If you cannot get over the gag reflex i suggest using your hand along with your mouth. The best blowjobs ive had werent from a girl that could go deep but from a girl who used her mouth and hand together. just keep it moist to stop the friction and let it slide through your hand while you go up and down. You wont need to go deep at all and i know, at least for me, that someone who can do that will make me cum a lot faster then a mouth alone.
Firefly here's my suggestion. Tell your boyfriend to take his hands and interlock his fingers. Not to tight though we don't want to cut off the circulation in his hands. When this is done you will need to get on your knees in front of him. Unbuckle his belt, open his trousers and pull down his underwear. Then for the next 30 to 45 seconds you can admire his manhood. Worship if you feel the need. Gently lick that little dab of pre-cum on the tip, We realize it's bitter tasting, but we are confident you will overcome this little inconvenience. If you think about it some of us don't drink beer for the taste, we drink it to black out and to try to forget 2 for 1 blowjob night when the Cardinal visited our parish. Anyway back to your experience, once you have removed the pre-cum from the tip close your eyes and tell your boyfriend to take his hands that he has interlocked and place them behind your head and then gently but forcefully take his cock and show you what that lovely throat was made for. The reality is that love hurt's sometimes. Good luck!
LOL... nice... This chick has a wicked gag reflex, tho, meaning this lovely little throat will clench up and rip his member off if it's gone too deep...
I've heard this and tried it. Yes, it works, but I'm looking for a little more than that. I don't want to be a professional... I just want a little more skill than I possess now
there you go--sounds just fine with me--a few hard gags makes for a great cum and swallow, in my experience with dear hubby--just a huge turn on for both of us--my anticipation/anxiety? of when a blow job will become something much different, how long will he hold my head and shove it deep until he cums? oh yeah...
definatly use your hand. and try to really relax your throat. relax period. the perfect way to ruin a blo job is if you're TOO focused on giving him pleasure, that's when you worry about messing up and what if you bite and blah blah blah. its all about having fun.
My first experience giving a blowjob was awful. Me and the guy I was seeing in high school ended up making out in his car behind the movie theater. Long story short, he begged me to get him off before we went inside...so I went down on him. It took like twenty fucking minutes, and I started spitting and gagging when he came. I noticed people were looking at me funny while we were in line, so when we got inside I went to the bathroom to check the mirror. My eyes were red and watery, my mascara was running down my face, and I had cum in my fucking hair!
He was so self-centered, I could have had cum on my face and he wouldn't have noticed. Hell, maybe he thought it was funny too.
