Are my BJs okay? (Question for boys)

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by mynameisflo, Apr 8, 2012.

  1. mynameisflo

    mynameisflo Guest

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    Hey everyone, it's my first time here so I'm looking for some piece of advice.
    I've been reading a lot about giving better blow jobs to a man and therefore trying to improve my "techniques".
    I usually make my boyfriend lie in bed and start kissing him over his chest, slowly going south. I massage his cock over his clothes and finally get them removed.
    Then I gradually start licking it and kissing it before I get it all in my mouth, always making eye contact with lusty looks and little smiles.
    When I get it in my mouth I go slowly up and down with a little help of my hands, then increasing the speed and wetness. I try to literally drool all over his cock as I know he likes it, while saying something like "does seeing me drool over your huge dick turn you on?". I make sure he sees the drool strings as I take his cock out of my mouth every once in a while to breathe, still stroking it up and down with one hand, while the other one is gently touching the testicles.
    Obviously I let him come inside my mouth and I swallow it all.

    So does this sound like a great blow job? What would you add to it to make my boyfriend's experience better?
    I'm looking for constructive critique so I will appreciate your comments!
     
  2. enhancer13

    enhancer13 Senior Member

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    Sounds like you know what you are doing to me! Keep up the good work.
     
  3. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    Hmm, not sure. Maybe if you gave me demonstration, that would give me more to work with...?
     
  4. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    head is like pizza - even when it's bad, it's still pretty good.

    if you swallow that is what makes it worthwhile. like...if it is really shitty, he'll probably make it obvious.
     
  5. GoofyGooberz

    GoofyGooberz Just Bitchy!!!!!!!!

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    Sounds like a typical BJ.

    I try to use no hands tho and deep throat more. As well as a few other tricks that are my own.
     
  6. kokujin

    kokujin Senior Member

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    *shrugs* From that description, I'd say they're probably just okay.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    with a dick in your mouth, doesn't it sound more like "dod seeig me dwoo owa yaw hoo dig too you oh??
     
  8. crazysensativelover

    crazysensativelover Guest

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    Just the fact that your trying to do right... you are great!! Your boyfriends a lucky ass dude!!
     
  9. Mgmlovespeace

    Mgmlovespeace Member

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    My hubby loves when I suck on his balls too while I jerk on his dick a little
     
  10. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Some men dig the drool, some don't. (I don't except on occasion)

    Make sure to involve your tongue, especially on the tip. And when you're catching your breath you can do things like kiss his shaft or play-bite it (or real bite it if he responds well to that). You can also try scratching his body, or grabbing his ass while blowing him. And you can put his hands on your head and let him control you, that can get pretty rough though =D

    Showing off the cum in your mouth is cool too (you didn't detail that)

    But really, the most important thing is to mix it up every now and then.
     
  11. DMFP

    DMFP Member

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    Sounds like you doing a good job - maybe ask him if he can think abt anything to make it better. When I receive a BJ I love my balls being lightly licked every now and then and have found when I give a guy a BJ they love it too. Also, the underside of the head of the cock is very sensitive so be aware of that and give it attention. Yesterday I gave a friend a BJ and holding his cock with the head and a couple inches in my mouth for a few seconds - holding perfectly still with mouth on an inward suck had him moaning. Hope this helps.
     
  12. rollingalong

    rollingalong Banned

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    i spotted your downfall right away...stop with the slow teasing....just reach down and pull it out and go to town like it is the best ice cream you ever had...and also the last one you will ever get....dudes dont need foreplay...thats a chick thing

    also make pleasurable grunting noises...i like that too

    oh ya...also use your free hand to reach down your own pants...i like that too
     
  13. andrew45

    andrew45 Member

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    you just suck it , and he will guide you how he like it .
     
  14. skinny.jeans

    skinny.jeans Members

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    Sounds pretty good to me. One thing I would add is, if you can, try taking it deep sometimes. Its especially nice when a guy is going to blow his load and the person sucking takes it right down so the load goes straight down his throat ;)

    Also just to add, the foreplay through clothing is something I in particular like a lot, it can be almost as good as the event itself.
     
  15. Mr.Writer

    Mr.Writer Senior Member

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    Only your boyfriend can tell you that :)
     
  16. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    You suck
     
  17. stillinthegroove

    stillinthegroove Member

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    Well every guy is different, but I've found that looking at him while you're sucking him, playing with his balls while you're sucking, and swallowing usually make him pretty happy. To be fair, I'm pretty sure most guys would be happy that you enjoy sucking him, and that you're doing it.
     
  18. make sure the drool doesn't dripp down to his balls or lower thigh cause that feels weird. give the balls some attention too, that will help climax. Most importantly have fun with it, if he sees that you love it then he'll love it all that much more. Good luck
     
  19. mr.me

    mr.me Member

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    while his dick fills your mouth, insert your finger in his asshole and jerk,, i wont' tell you what a feeling!!!
     
  20. Hugh Janus

    Hugh Janus Member

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    Drool?
    I had a chick suck so hard it was painful and I had to slap her on the side of the head to ease up. It was like she was in a big hurry.
    You see chicks pumping away like they are trying to skin a ferret. The best blow I ever had came from a girl with a rough dry tounge who just used to go around and around. Never deep. Just the end. Boom. There is very little feeling in the shaft, the head is where it's at.
     

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