asking your girl for a BJ

Yeah, just wanna know a sensitive way to ask her for one. She told me we should both be open about what we want and not be afraid to ask about things. we've already talked about sex and she feels sometimes people can be ready after a week. we've been together two weeks, but i still wanna be sensitive and everything and not just be like "give me a BJ", yea know? she some how knows already I have a big penis w/o seeing it but I just wanna be sweet cause she has already said I am an awesome guy, i just get horny and its hard to hide sometimes. maybe cause I am a scorpio, who knows...

...any ideas though?

 

When you guys are both ready for it, it'll happen...

When you two are fooling around, making out, etc, clothing is often removed. So if you both lose your pants, that's a much better step than "blow me baby" would be. When you get to that sort of situation, you could ask something nicer like "Do you wanna taste me?" Or equivalent. PLEASE be willing to return the favour

 

haha scorpios are always the best. Has she ever given a BJ before?

 

shes not a virgin so I am sure she has. I'm like her 4th bf. she is my 4th gf.

This one gf I had a year ago said she would never ever give a BJ and thought they were the grossest thing ever. But I was somehow able to get to the point where she wanted to give one by setting the mood just right and got three or four from her.

Oh well, I highly doubt clothes stripping will occur two weeks or even four or five weeks in, but oh well, I'll go with the flow and see what happens. We do make out and fool around when we are both free (often busy)

 

Hmm....I'd ask her if she's ever done it before..chances are if she has, then she'll do it again....

 

just slap her in the face with it
im kiddin...
how is giving a bj the grossest thing ever, haha that would make me feel bad if someone said that to me, its not like your wanting her to eat your ass or something

but maybe if you two get into a heavy makeout session she will... or maybe if you just asked her or something...

 

you know something just do ittttttttt ''tell her i wantttt you.. and i'm soo hornyyyy ..soo let's makeee outtt''

 

lol dude we are twins, i guess it is cuz we're scorpios

as for your situation you go for the oral first and then shell be obligated to do it back never doubt yourself, my girlfriend had never done anything besides make out before she dated me and she let me fuck her and weve been goin out 15 days. jsu tbe confident.

 

Jointman69 good advice = just tell him,'' do it with her and point ''.

 

point?? point at what, do I dare ask

 

Please don't tell me that works

 

scorpios are the best.

if *she* was a scorpio, you wouldn't have to be sensitive about asking for it at all

 

hey! im jsut going by my expiriences here. you dont even need to point.

 

maybe because you're a man with a penis, who knows...

 

you guys haven't slept together yet, it's only been a few weeks and you want to ask her for a blow job? you'd save a lot of time if you just asked her to get a new boyfriend.

 

nope...she was the one who brough up the topic of sex days into the relationship and told me, in general terms, while still on the topic, to feel free and comfortable talking about anything. She also told me out of the blue that she doesn't like restrictions as to when you should do certain things. it depends on the people she said and than she told me about her cousin and bf who eventually married, they had sex after a week. so she is telling me all this on her own free will. So you didn't have to be a jerk about it lynsey.

Thanks to everyone else for the ideas, help and occasional jokes, haha. Yeah, someone else said yeah, "i am a man with a penis." well, yeah, i know, but I think I am emotionally very healthy and I do concern myself with how my current gf feels. I am not afraid to get on that topic, I think thats what makes a man a real man. You know, every girl I have had has felt safe and secure with me and I don't have to be all macho.

 

just ask her. if she says no, don't give her any grief about it.

 

carl, you sound like an all around great guy
i dont think u should be even trippin over this your personality is probably going to get you where u going in no time at all

 

I never really had any trouble with this issue... I usually just say, Hey babe! Want a protein shake? (I try to use a thick voice and I try my best to sound serious.) Works every time guys I'm telling you!!
Greg

 

if she has a headache, ask her if she needs a dose of Dr. Greg's Rude Oil. lol.