At the point of orgasm do you ever suddenly question what love means?

everyone i ever met said that when they had kids - it wasn't planned - it just 'happened' - I've had sex lots but maybe i was just too careful? I'm 33 now and the male line of our family ends at me

 

never!

 

were the only 2 that have voted.... i hope this is a new poll and im not just freaking out!

 

no.....


for me it's the ultimate point (if not long before...should always be like that) where all thinking is finally impossible and i explode both physically and mentally into torn, but satisfied shreds....

so.....impossible to ponder about the important questions in life in that state...

 

Well, our first pregnancy (unplanned) was a miscarriage, our second pregnancy resulted in our oldest son (not really planned, but not prevented, we were at a point where if it happened, it happened, and we wouldn't be disappointed at all if it did, and happen, it certainly did), our third pregnancy was planned and resulted in another miscarriage. Our fourth pregnancy was planned, and resulted in our twins. Although the fact that they were twins was certianly not planned, we figured we'd just have one, like most people do.

So we definitely planned two of our pregnancies, with one being "semi-planned".

 

People in todays world should have an obligation to not have kids. It should be a law to stop bringing people into this world. Especially if they aren't going to be someone when they grow up.

 

Knowing that my brother and I weren't planned (my mom was told that she couldn't have children before and after her first pregnancy, which was a miscarriage) but are still very well loved and appreciated, I can't say much about this one.
I think I'll be one of the first women in my family (at least, in the past 30-ish years) to actually PLAN having children, though. Most of them got pregnant, married because they had a kid with the guy, and then divorced because it didn't work out. You just can't think that, because you have a kid together, things will automatically work out.

I also VERY much disagree with what the last person said. My husband and I definitely plan to have kids, and we're planning to wait a few years down the road (he's 21, I'm 18) but if it happens sooner, we definitely won't see it as a bad thing. At least we're married, so it isn't like "they just got married because they had a kid together and felt like they had to/may as well" ... definitely none of that. It's just the incredible feeling of loving each-other so much that you want to create something (or two, or three, or... y'know) that is part of both of you. When two people work that well together, is it really that wrong? Mind you, if we had the two that we want and then decide we want more, we'll definitely adopt (partly because we both plan to get "fixed" after we have our second, partly because I wouldn't feel right about it, knowing that there are so many unwanted kids that need loving families). Nope - no questioning, here. If we have an "accident" at least it was partially planned (considering we're already married and planning kids somewhere down the road) and not just another unwanted mistake.

 

wtf, this is a confusing thread

 

I had 6 pregnancies, 2 miscarriages, and 4 children..NONE were planned..just blessings !!!

 

Sometimes it is.

 

Okay, I surrender. You know it all.

 

yes this is true and it's what gets some women into trouble.

 

everyones someone when they grow up

who are you to define what it means to be someone?

 

my thoughts exactly.


This thread still confuses me, there are three separate topics being discussed in this thread.

oh boy, I will refrain from saying any more.

 

Uhmmm, ok...to the ORIGINAL TOPIC...

No. At the edge of orgasm to me, I am more comforted and convinced that love is real, and I can feel it washing over me all at once. It's an awesome feeling.

 

At the point of orgasm I am usually thinkign, 'Go on, go on, go on you fucker, ah, ah, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, YEEEEESSSSSSSSS.'

 

no... why would i?/?