Are you secure in your bedroom skillz??? (Dancing, role-playing, doing acrobats, etc.) That's right, not skills with an 's' but skills with a 'z'??? If so, how would you feel or think if someone told you, that you weren't as good as you thought??
No I've never felt secure about anything like that. I wanted to feel secure and to do all those things and more...but I know I could feel confident with the right person. If someone said I wasn't as good as I thought....well,I would tell them to get up and show me how it's done then
I think I feel fairly secure about myself now, I guess everyone's a bit rubbish to begin with, lol and you just find out how to do things with experience. Of course it would be a bit upsetting if someone told you that, but it depends on how he'd say it. And also, everyone likes different things, for example a blow job - one likes it soft and with a lot of lips and tongue, the other wants it a bit harder.....and of course you can't know that immediately. It's the finding out what the other person likes that's fun though, isn't it?
Yeah 'the skillz' builds up different speeds depending on who you are but, luckily I have stamina on my side for 'regular' sex but licking a pussy is I don't know, guess you could call it a skill on it's own. It's depends on the girl too but the 'basics' are the same, and if you have a girlfriend you learn pretty fast how she wants it still you get better every time... And if someone said that I was really bad, I guess I'd either ask what they liked or just run off like a coward and find someone else
I feel secure enough. Guys compliment me all the time. But there's always that part inside of you that wonders if you actually are. I'm probably worrying.
