Being the responsible one

I can't stand it. I want to be taken care of. If I realize someone is more irresponsible than me it's the biggest turn off in the world. I literally lose my attraction for the person. Am I weird in responsibility being my biggest turn on and lack of it my greatest turn off?

 

I TOTALLY understand.

 

hmmm...i was married to the most irresponsible man on the planet for 15yrs....think i'd like a change next time round.....then again i think its turned me off for life!

 

hah, that's exactly how I feel I don't want to be the pants in the relationship. that doesn't mean I won't help make decisions or contribute monetarily or emotionally or whatever to a partner, I just don't want to be the one in charge more often than not

 

well why dont you people just go out with me instead?

 

ditto.


this is seriously something that guys need to realize - EVERY girl i know would agree. too many guys are wishy-washy and don't take any control. i mean, i don't want to be treated like a halfwit child, but it's so nice when a guy takes charge and just sweeps you off your feet instead of waiting for the girl to tell him what to do.

 

responsibility ?.... sounds like your rational for being indecisive parasites .

 

hah, well that too. I know it's selfish to want to have the guy be the responsible person, but that's just how I'm wired... I want the guy to be the pants, however selfish that may make me

 

LOL..... see, makno's taking charge. that's hot.

 

exactly

 

In other words, you want to eat your cake, and have it too?

 

what's the alternative?

 

Nevermind, I cannot properly explain at this time..

 

explain or I'm not sharing my cake

 

Well, cake is tempting considering I had to throw away all the food I had a few days ago, but it's more just abstract ideas in my head that don't really translate for me into any coherent thought, but that's how it usually is.