okay here it goes... me and my best friends have been best friends forever!!! we never left each other for a second, we even lost all of our friends becomeing friends (longer story), so we made all our new friends together... so getting to the point recently my best friends starting hanging out with someone else (a very very bad influence aswell) and in the beging i was really worried about her but i always looked out for her then she started hanging out with this girl more than me and then finally stopped hanging out with me, she never called me or anything so one day i found out her new friend influenced her to do something really bad, something i know she never would have done, she was really upset with herslef so she came back to me, but i was so hurt still about the whole situation so i pretended like everything was fine and we became friends....the next day she started hanging out with my sister "no big deal she my sister right? there just hanging out" untill again, she still called, but not for me i would pic up the phone and hear my "best friend" ask for my sister so i was even more hurt,......anyways so now i have all this hurting built up inside and no best friend to make me feel better, i want things to go back to the way they were but i dont even no if it ever will, i love her alot and only want whats best for her, she seems to be really happy with my sister, but im not, i dont know what to do, i cry almost everyday just thinking about it,....i need help badly i dont even no where to begin! ~peace and love~
try not to let it get you too down. these things have happened to everyone! things will work out, just hold in there. in a couple of weeks you might even laugh about it (with a new friend?) peace
I agree... Also pulling her aside and talking to her and telling her how you feel can help also...you mostly feel so bad cause you have so many emotions built inside that have to be let out...talk to her and tell her how you feel..I'm sure that she's not even realizing what harm she's doing to you...I'm sure that she probably doesn't even know that she's doing you any harm... Take a deep breath and take it easy...you have other friends right?...so call them up and begin to hang out with them more often...make new friends..I'm sure that you're a pretty friendly person... Even trying to hang out more with your sister could help...try to get yourself included in their little gang...maybe you are the one who is parting aside and not her running away and you don't even realize it... Just lay back and relax...don't let yourself get all cought up in the situation...cause while you're crying and tearing yourself apart, she's out there not even realizing what harm she's doing to you...just talk to her and let your feelings out...event try and talk to your sister about it..I'm sure she would understand and even help you out a bit... Just let your feelings out and talk...the best solution to problems is to confront them and in this case your confrotation is talking it out...letting your emotions out...set yourself free...let out your feelings..talk them out...I'm sure that if you do everything will be much better...
I want dirty details, what was it she done that she normally wouldn't have? Anyway, you shouldn't dwell on it. This probably won't be the last time in your life someone fucks you over. It's not worth your time or tears. You'll eventually find a new best friend, and you'll forget all about this chic. If she didn't stick with you forever, she wasn't a true friend!
what great info Im really enjoying your posts and sig lately. What did she do that was bad that she normally wouldnt have done? Sex, drugs.....i wanna know! Then maybe I can help ya
sounds like youre taking different paths... and obviously you dont like the one shes taking. i dont have much to say that hasnt been mentioned already, just be rational. i hope it all works out for you.
I'd say you should talk to her about it. There could be some stupid misunderstanding hidden under the whole situation. Just talk to her and sort it out.
people's interests and tastes change in their social life, it's not a knock against you... it's part of growth.
