Bi because of options?

Are you bi, or curious, because of your available options? Married, don't get any at home, don't want to hastle with another woman just for a quick blowjob and just happen to know someone that you could connect with?Same goes for wives too?
If it were happening at home, you wouldn't even bother?
Why did you develop your bi curiosity?Does it satisfy your sexual desires?

 

Im not sure if anyone is Bi because its an option. I think its kinda like being Gay , a chem thing in the brain that makes a person more open to either sex.
Though Ive known a few folks that started out Bi , then turned Gay.

 

Well, there is the boarding school theory. It is believed that people without access to the opposite sex will be more likely to explore with the same sex.

I started exploring out of curiosity. I wondered what being penetrated by a penis felt like for women. I did enjoy anal penetration from an early stage in my sexual development though.

 

When I was hs all I wanted was to be sent to boarding school so I could be trapped alone with boys who I could like use the lack of women to get to like gang bang me.

 

I Spent 6 Years In An All Bois Boarding School, And I'm Proud To Say, Not Once Did

Sex Cross My Mind...:angel:



Cheers Glen.

 

I'm curious, even though you mite say i've already tried it but that's a different story, because my wife just makes it look fun so after playn round with her a little in a few different ways now i'm wanting to see what it actually feels like.

 

I'm more on the straight side of bi, but even so I remember it developing just like my attraction to girls did. I just...liked guys. I fantasized about them, masturbated to the thought of having sex with ones I fancied...even emotionally I had crushes. It just sort of came to me. I was a devout Christian at the time, so the thought of being bi for opportunism wouldn't have crossed my mind.

So no, not a lack of options. Just the way I feel. I feel I've got more selection with women anyway, since there are more women into men than men into men.

 

I started out as bi simply because it was more socially acceptable. Then after being with a guy I realized that I didn't like the cock.

That was wayyy before I was ever with another woman. That just automatically clicked.

 

I kinda in same situation as you but i have not really experienced it yet and probably won't but I had been with a guy but i was very young so i don't remember it well but my wife lived a bi life style for a while and being with her and playn around with me i have did things that's made me more curious.

 

I don't think anyone is bi just for options. Even if a straight guy is desperate for a bit of action, I don't think he'd have a bi experience unless he was already curious.

My curiosity arose from sexual interest. I just wondered what it would be like.

And I don't believe sexuality is a result of conditioning, as some of the other posters have been suggesting. I believe conditioning comes into play in your reaction to your curiosity, but as for your actual sexuality, I think its predetermined.

Peace and Love eace:

 

I'm bi simply because I can be attracted by either sex. I think I'm emotionally closer to women but love all types of oral and anal sex with both women and men.

It's not from conditioning, but it maybe fair to say that if you are living as a heterosexual and for one reason or another are not getting enough sex to suit your needs/libido. then a guy/girl may well be open to experimentation with the other sex; I know that is what drove me to further explore my man 2 man side - even tho I had experimented as early as 19, but been living a straight life for most of the next 35 years.

Simon :sunny:

 

I would not say that I am bisexual because of the options. I am attracted to both men and women. Its not conditioning it's just the way some people are. Just like some people are straight, Gay, Lesbian or transgender. Being bisexual is the way I am programed (for lack of a better word) and I love it.

 

Situational homosexuality is a well-known phenomenon.

Having no (or very limited) access to the opposite sex will lead a number of heterosexual people to having the next best thing in their eyes - homosexual sex. No doubt, some of the people who have tried it, agree that they actually liked it, and continue going homosexual/lesbian whenever the access to the opposite sex seems to be difficult, time consuming or expensive. The others continue being exclusively heterosexual.

Both bisexual and homosexual behavior have lost a lot of stigma attached to it in a number of cultures. This reduces the threshold level and more people seem to be inclined to try and satisfy their sexual needs with the members of their own sex, simply because it may be more opportune to do so under the given circumstances. In this sense, a number of people are effectively embracing bisexual behavior. This does not go on to say that they necessarily wish to go public about it, though. Yet, the very thought that even if being "caught in the act" does not amount to anything serious, acts as a powerful stimulant to get sexual release in a the easiest way possible.

KD

 

I remember when I was younger I would say that I was BI , because it seems more accepted.

I was basically lyin to myself.

 

I don't really think you can start out bi, and then become gay. In those situations, the person who "became gay" was very likely gay all along, and only had relations with the opposite sex, because it's more accepted by society. A lot of gay people have sexual encounters/relationships with the opposite sex, not because they were attracted to them, or that's what they really wanted. But because they felt they had no choice, and weren't strong enough to be open with society about their true sexuality.

I also agree with many of the previous posters who are saying sexual orientation is governed by nature, and not conditioning. Although of course in saying that, some people have defied their true sexualities for whatever reason. (gay men being with women to keep their homosexuality in the closet is a classic example) But just because a gay guy in the closet is with a woman, doesn't mean he's enjoying it, or happy being in that situation. A gay man with a woman is still gay, even if only he is aware of it.

 

agreed... But saying that your bi, from where I come from is more accepted then just say your fully gay.

 

I'm bi because I truly like both sexes. I could have ended up with a man or a woman, but wouldn't be happy with just only one or the other. Frankly, poly is an option, but we agree that is something that if it is meant to be it will happen.

 

lier

 

What Have You Done With My Caps Young Man...:toetap05:.?



Cheers Glen.

 

I do think generally, bisexuality is accepted more than being totally gay. I think in general society, in terms levels of acceptance, it's: Hetero>Bisexual (bisexual women are generally looked on more favourably than bi men though)>Lesbians>Gay men.