Im gonna make this quick, Had a girl over a few weekends ago, she went down and I wasnt getting a boner. I was super embarrassed, but thankfully she was understanding. I had her over again the following weekend but she seemed less interested as the first time and didnt offer me oral sex. I'm pretty sure this is because I couldnt get a boner the first time. It was bothering me for a while. I decided I'd stop masturbating for a few days before the weekend to maybe become erect easier. So last night I met another girl and brought back home. We were hooking up, I started getting erect then she went down on me. Once again I felt my dick go limp in her mouth. I dont know what my problem is and I'm afraid this will always happen. Anyone else ever have this problem? Possible causes I can think of: - Stress from college studies - Performance anxiety - I was kinda drunk on both occasions, but sober enough to get aroused - Smoking cigarettes (Only when I drink on weekends)
Probably the alcohol too be honest mate, its definitely not gona help your situation. Next time try it without the alcohol. Also, have you thought that you may not actually be attracted to this girl deep down? I've had that problem before.
The more you are stressed about it the more this will happen. Next time why don't you try to not drink as much and put some music on in the background or something to relax and chill and get comfortable, and maybe if that doesn't work then before you engage in anything, try telling your partner what the problem is and letting it out alone may help you with your worries.
How do these clowns find girlfriends is what Id like to know.... And seriously,, you dumb bitches ALL deserve men like this......
i'm pretty sure women spend most of their lives dating the biggest piece of shit they can find, so when they finally do decide to settle down whoever they're with will definitely be the best boyfriend they've had.
lol.... mi have found it easier to get what i want if i just ask... then I tell them to hit the road... so they dont really know how big of a pos I am.
