break-up bitches

I have noticed that whenever a relationship ends there is a swarm of women who hoover over the whomever the guy is. This has happened since about the age of 13 with me. It perplexes me...my friend and I just coined over the phone this minute I am sure it will be in webster next year. The funniest thing is when some of the break-up bitches are women whom the guy has said crazy mean things about (not that I would ever tell, I',m cool like that). But yeah women are funny if ya wanna get your rocks off fucking go for it don't fly around playing the friend role...never works babe...you wanna be the desired not the consoler...thoughts?

 

Ummm, that has never happened to me....HAHA. Women never swarm around me, period.

 

Desperate, lonely people....

 

so you're saying its wrong or not possible or something to be friends with an ex?

 

that's so not what I meant...I just meant that no matter who it is as soon as a guy is back ont he market he is temporarily more appealing because he was unavailible.

 

Yeah, I've seen lots of that. Friendship is where it's at. Love the one your with.




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no that's not it either...love the one you're with? relationships of convience are horrible...it's far better to be alone then to be with somone because they're accesible.

 

I see your point, I was on the wrong track... I was responding to:

You make a good point, makes sense; semantic problem: I use some of these words in many different ways; I tend to feel a strong sense of appreciation and care for most all that I meet; friendship, but I am light; aware and honest about my own expectations; somehow I feel friendly with whomever I have sex with. But this is a semantic thing, your point makes sense to me.


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Doesn't all this silliness stop at the age of 20? maybe 30?

 

I see this as "an energy transfer" from the old relationship in that there is a positive in the connection that the guy has from the old realtionship and there is, in some cases, a sense of new found freedom and this translates into a change in the capability to attract; a change in the guy's psychology that causes him to attract more ?

 

I think part of this changes; a young experimental part where the person is learning about who they are in more "basic" ways. As a counter example, if there is an older guy, say in his 50's, who has been in a relationship for many years who separates with his girl then there may be a sense of new found freedom that translates in increased 'attraction.'




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hopefully. sounds dramatic.

 

I just met my ex boyfriend's first "breakup bitch" last night. And surely there will be many more to come. Awesome...


~Nova

 

hah!!!!!! sorry but I am happy somone finally gets what i'm talking about!