budding relationships...

how the fuck long do these things take?

I have way too little patience for this
Imma bout to just pounce her and make my way with her and see if she gets the hint :tongue:

 

sometimes ya just gotta go for it...otherwise you'll miss the moment

 

other times you have to be patient let it build up till its gotta happen, its a fine art.

 

quite the double-edged sword...

 

They take to the point of one of you having the guts and either kissing the other or at least saying "hey, I really like you, let's go on a date"

 

she's the shy type, I definently have to let it build up in this case (I think =/)

we talk on the phone nearly every day, and when we are around each other we are touching each other nonstop (and smiling nonstop as well)
there is quite a bit of flirtiness as well
so, I'm pretty sure I don't have to worry about her throwing out the friend card (but I'm still paranoid as all hell about it =P)

 

Suck it up, do it. You're certainly young enough that if it doesn't work out, there will be other prospects around - she ain't the last woman on earth.

 

Ya, what she said!

 

I am aiming for a smooth transition here
just telling them how I feel has not worked for me in the past, and I don't think it's a very nice way to start off a relationship either way
and I am very big on beginings
I figure after a few more times of being around her, I will just give in and blurt it, but for now, I am going to try this whole smooth transition thing

as seamonster said, it's a fine art, I have not been delicate enough in the past, I am trying to actually get this one to work =P


on a side note, I am really amazed at the girls telling me to just dive in, because it has never worked that way for me
and girls that rejected me in the past, have started to like me in a relationship way after we were already friends too
which shows (me at least) that girls tend to appreciate smoother better
I don't think women understand how their own minds work very much =P

 

*shrugs* lots of high school girls still scream and shriek at every little thing. High school girls are not exactly the epitome of maturity

 

excuses.

 

yes, and you've never made an excuse in your life.

I'm just sayin, most high school girls aren't terribly mature. Yes that's a generalization, meaning it doesn't apply to every chick in high school right now. But so is saying that women don't know their own minds - I know what I like and what I want from someone in a relationship and -personally speaking- (meaning I do n ot speak for every woman nor do I claim to do so) I would rather just fucking know.

 

One day at a time Duckie, one day at a time.

 

She might be too shy to let you know.....so , verry gently.....kiss her....REALLY kiss her.....she will let you know whether to take it further or not.

Good Luck.

 

Some people like being pounced on, others would not enjoy it. Youhave to gauge what you know about her to determine whether she'd be one to lap it up, or not..

 

point taken.

 

yeah, that's kinda what I've been planning, but I need to wait for the right moment, ya know?

 

I would defintely do that, and kiss her gently, no pouncing

be smooth! If she is touching you all the time, she likes you, thats what girls do.

 

If she's touching you all the time I'd say when the moment strikes kiss her. Not a peck but I wouldn't pounce. Maybe hold her face or the back of her head. First kisses give good impressions.

If she's shy she's probably got butterflies wondering when you are going to kiss her and hoping you do it and WHEN?

Are you going to see her tonight?

 

nah, possibly Sunday, or next Tuesday-Thursday (depeding on if my work schedule changes or not :tongue: