Can get girlfriend to orgasm through oral, not through sex

So me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 2 years now.

I can get her to orgasm during oral no problem. Takes about 20 minutes, but i know its real. If i have my fingers in her while she has it, her vagina squeezes me like crazy, she is dripping wet, and shaking/squeezing me uncontrollably.

Whenever she finishes though, i can't keep on stimulating her clit, she makes me stop, says its too sensitive, which i can understand because after i finish, and she swallows, if she sucks any more it is veryyyyyyyy sensitive.

So, i've been trying to get her to orgasm during sex. She has told me she has never orgasmed in general before me, and that i am the biggest she has been with, and i believe her, i know who the other people she has had sex with are, and have seen one of them naked before.

I try G-spot stimulation, rubbing her clit while doing it, thrusting towards the g-spot, all of this before i give her an orgasm, after i give her an orgasm, i've tried everything i can think of short of toys.

I really want to feel that orgasm around my dick, i get turned on thinking about it.

any help?

 

try and get her right to the edge with your mouth, and then when you think shes about to explode put in your dick and start pumping like crazy until she cums

 

Good luck.

Just have her fiddle faddle while she's on top. That's the only reason I'll ever get on top... I'm a lazy bastard, I'm not about to do anything unless there's something in it for me.

 

Whenever she is at the edge with her mouth, she is normally saying something like "don't stop" or "keep on going" so i havn't wanted to kill the mood, but its worth a shot.

Another question....

Me and my co-worker/good friend talk about sex a lot during work. He'll say stuff like "she came like 4 times last night while having sex" on pretty much a daily basis. from what I'm reading here, that isn't really normal. When me and my girlfriend have sex, she gets reallllllllllly loud in intervals, but i never get that whole body trembling or squeezing vagina. I've asked her if shes orgasming, and she says no, but it just feels really damn good for a longer time than when she orgasms from oral. Could this be what my friend means when he says shes cumming 4 times a night. Its kinda depressing hearing him say that, when i can't manage to get my girl to finish from sex alone, and i've always associated cumming with having an orgasm. I think i'm just gonna buy a vibrator and go at it with that while i'm fucking her. Gotta get the job done some how.

 

Have you considered that you co-worker/friend could be lying to you. Its quite easy to do. Also a women can orgasm more then once alot easier then a man can.

Tiffany

 

Oh, I know there is the chance that he's lying, but theres also the chance he's telling the truth.

 

Don't worry about what your co-worker is saying. You should just be worried about being able to give your girlfriend an orgasm. Cumming is the same as having an orgasm.

Tiffany

 

Up until my most recent lay, I've only spooged once from just straight face.

It just takes a lot of dedication and patience. And NO SLOPPY TONGUE-FLAPPY shit. That shit you see in pr0n... doesn't work. Not at all.

You just gotta keep at one succinct motion for at least five minutes, tired as you might get. *shrug* That's the only way it works, really.

 

Obvious statement is obvious.

 

Whilst not necessarily a complete lie, I think its fairly likely going on certain there is a bit of the fisherman boasting about catching a whale when he got a minnow. If you can make her come with oral reliably that is an extremely useful skill, and she will be happy you have it. But it is likely to orgasm from sex she will need some other stimulation, be it rubbing her clit with your fingers or a vibe, to keeping her nipples aroused, and some girls will appreciate a finger up the ass (though probably best check with her first).