Its my observation that the hot guys prefer each other, and the hot girls prefer credit cards, so they dont run in the same circles anyway
Well i have good friends that i sex with from time to time but we know it's just sex, and if either of us are in a relationship no sexing will be going on among us. In other words we're friends, but any other intimacy is for the lulz
Yes, they probably can. Hot is just another categorisation and (despite that 'hot' can be defined') it remains subjective in the end anyway. So it's not absolute science in my book.
whether or not you can be just friends with people you have sex with is prolly a whole nother subject
Women are infinitely threatened by attractive men, or any man who has reason not to put them on a pedestal or think of them as the prize in a relationship, or suck up to them (the physically powerful, the unusually capable, smart, virile, etc). Insta-cling effect, or alternately, they may fuck them and do everything they can to mess up the relationship rather than not be able to control the guy. Most attractive guys are good dads, and yet that is not enough for women. Attractive guys are not good dads to them, and therein lies the problem. Most of them feel they are better off with doormats, and who could blame them? Hot guys are super-charged TNT to their fragile little worlds. Not to mention the fact that men and women define friendship very very differently. The rare women who are capable of friendship, however, may be rarer and more useful to choice men than his male buddies, though. Finally, it is just a waste. Evolution labors, lays waste and sacrifices generations upon generations of uggos so that two rare, well-formed attractive organisms may finally, with tremendous luck, encounter each other for a fragile, fleeting moment and they are not going to fuck in the name of potato love? Pleazzzzze. Edit: Unless, like VG says, they prefer each other in which case, good for them. Truly attractive people should serve only themselves and their peers anyway, evolution is beneath them. Evolution works for them, and not the other way around (and they know --- no, feel-- it).
I don't think the level of attractiveness plays into weather or not two people can be friends cause when you get to someone like me who fucks with both sexes if it were true I'd have no friends lol. This thread makes me think I'm ugly cause I make a point of having hot friends, but I seriously doubt it
No, its the same subject. If you take sex out of the equation then there is no intimate boundary of expectation between a man and a woman, ie can a cat and a dog be just friends?!
I have friendships with a few males that think they're hot, but I disagree. So there is no real danger of attraction on my end because I have a different definition of "hot" than they do. Even still, they're wearing their big egos on their sleeves. While I'm slightly amused in secret throughout the entire friendship.