Can we kill love?

Can we destroy our love? Just make something and with that throw the love out of our hearts? And why would someone do such a thing?
Just curious, I dont want to kill my love

 

Love is a very fickle thing. Unconditional love might wether the beatings, but most love fades....curiously enough, the pain it causes never dies,,,,,,,

 

Well.. You want to say that love WILL cause pain, doenst matter how strong it is?

 

love causes pain.
ask anyone.

 

Don't no why - I'm getting an inkling that you have had some shitty experiences - me too - probably totally different to yours - but thats not everyone is it - theres alot of plain ordinary happy couples.

you can kill love if you really want to - 'every man kills the thing he loves' is a quote from somebody famous - i'm ignorant there - but it's certainly true.you can put the nail right in the coffin - I did once by saying our relationship had become like an apple that was rotting from the inside out - that just about finished it off - whatever you do - don't try it.Its much better to try and make love bloom - it does for lots of people

 

nothing feels as good as love, but nothing hurts worse

 

Guys, love is the most beautiful thing that has ever happened to me. I dont see why someone would like to kill the love. Maybe, if I realise that the person dont love me any more or if he leave me - maybe than I would like to kill the love - If I have to, but there is no other normal reason not to want to love or be loved. Love hurts but in my opinion if it is strong enough - it will live and make lovers happy

 

That is so true. I'm not sure if love is really worth all the pain.

 

that should be the quote in my sig... I mean ...aheam...I agree

 

of course you can kill love..... crack, meth, alchohol, selfishness... an overabundance of either of those should kill it

 

I would say - yes.
I have never felt better than now - when Im in love. Why would I never felt this thing? Becouse Im scared to be hurt? Doenst make sense to me

 

Oz!, I was asking if you can kill your love if you want to.
Like... From now I wont love him any more

 

I like the way he said that with a smile and a stab

 

no don't be like that - you have a beautiful thing - I think it's like..

where some have found their paradise - others just come to harm

 

Risk is always here. And I do think it is worth enough.

Damn, Ive never been hurt and Im saying this, but I really hope I wont be!!!! Ever

 

Oh, you mean just wipe out emotions? ...... hmm, i dunno, prolly, i've been in love, had relationships finish and been in love and found no reciprocation for it...... so yeah, purely from a personal perspective i'd say it's possible....

 

Well.. Betrayal in various forms can "kill" love. Oz has mentioned a number of them in his post. The thing is, though, is that I believe love is beautiful BECAUSE it is associated with all those strong emotions, emotional pain no exception. It is the most wonderful thing in life, and it has a way of making you want to risk getting hurt because it is a wonderful thing.

That's how I see it, anyway.

 

I agree, if you dont allow hurt to happen, love can never occur...but that in no way makes me less bitter.

 

Hmm ... I am trying to kill my love too (but not my lover, although that may come to pass yet).

However, every time I make the decision to never speak to him again, I hear a song on the radio ... or watch a movie ... or read a book ... or have a dream ... or see something on the street that makes me realize we are not through yet, and that the death of our love will only numb its pain in the short term.

(If you are tenderhearted and want proof of this -- and/or a good cry ... read The Vanishing Point by Mary Sharrat.)

I think maybe sometimes, if it won't die, it should be left to live ...

 

Maybe we all just want to find our happiness and love is a great way to find it.
But sometimes, if we are far apart from our love.... I want to say - if we miss someone very much and if we know that this person is also missing me and loves me as much love him - maybe in despair we will try to kill the feeling, to try to avoid the pain. That is my greatest fear in this moment.