Can you see...

yourself as a parent? Do you think you would make a good mother/father?



I'm pondering this about myself, I just can't decide...

 

i hate children. sorry, i do. everytime i see a spoiled little brat i wanna tear their limbs off and shove them up their ass.

 

wow, well that was very blunt of you.

i'm not sure if want children, yet i do. it scares me more than anything, but i think kids are great

 

The thought of having kids scares the shit out of me, but I think I would be the most kickass dad ever.

 

i want to have kids and i want to introduce them to everything early, like i will be totally open to them that i smoke, and i will introduce them to the good music early... joplin, hendrix, zeppelin, floyd, sublime... i am gunna do everything and say everything that my mom didnt

 

i dont want kids...
but if i ever did have one i would ADOPT!!!

 

Scared of sex Willy?

 

Good luck explaining to social services why your 4 year-old went to preschool high. God, I've always wanted a pot-head for a dad...

Anyway...I would make the best mother in the entire world. I'm going to adopt all my kids from Africa and teach them everything my mother (the current greatest mother and human being on Earth) taught me. Sometimes the thought does scare me, but I know that in the end it will be worth it.

 

no. (this message is to short)

 

hmm... hey, that would be cool. what would really be neat would be to adopt a kid like from every race and they could all learn the customs and culture and stuff from every brother/sister's country.

 

I love kids... well, they can be frustrating.. but you need to learn their mindsets and kind of get to be one with them and play their games... I used to tutor third grade. I still love kids... I like them because... it's just so... undescribable. There's something in their eyes you don't see in too many adults... a glazed sparkle of innocence.

 

the real me? Can ya? CAN YA?

 

I don't think I can. I'm tired... time to whipout the sleepytime thread.

 

Yes Derek I see the real you. And the real you has a sock-fettish. The real you also wishes he could spend the rest of his life with me in a giant polka-dot painted bathtub!

SO THERE! (Not one of my favorite Who songs, by the way)

 

I can. I wanna be a good dad.

 

Yeah, it's not one of my favorites either, but Quadrophenia is pretty good.

 

You know, you never answered the origanal question.

Do you ever stay on topic?

 

I can see myself as a mother..I feel that vibe all the time. Ive had countless pregnancy dreams since a very young age, and theyre always most indescribably beautiful...

 

I've wondered about this several times before. I don't think I could do it. That might be because I shouldn't be able to see myself as being capable of raising children at this point in my life simply because I'm at this point in my life.

Other times I feel that if you dont' have children, you miss out on this great joy in life, and you just sort of end with yourself; no part of you is carried on into another generation. The idea of having total responsibility over how a new little human being grows and develops is exciting and empowering, but also terrifying.

Basically - and I know this sounds terrible, but it's the blunt truth - I think I'm just too selfish to be able to invest every fiber of my life into that of another. I dont' think I would be able to be happy giving up everything I want and putting priorities over my own dreams. I want to be able to stay slightly aloof and disconnected, so that I might be impulsive and fleeting and scatterbrained without seriously damaging some innocent child, and just incase some Wizard suddenly appears in a rip in the fabric of time and says, "Come join me in this dimension, an entire race of people depends on you to save them! It is your destiny, though you cannot say goodbye, and may never see this world again," I want to be able to just leap on through and be the savior for some lost galaxy.

Also, small children drive me crazy. And I don't know what the 'rules' are, or how you're supposed to act around them or what to do when they throw things at eachother or start crying...

 

no not at all...but i think everyone who wants chrildren and can adope should adopt