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Discussion in 'The Whiners' started by lover/young_peace, Oct 17, 2004.

  1. lover/young_peace

    lover/young_peace Senior Member

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    yourself as a parent? Do you think you would make a good mother/father?



    I'm pondering this about myself, I just can't decide...
     
  2. Edward G.

    Edward G. Edwardson

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    i hate children. sorry, i do. everytime i see a spoiled little brat i wanna tear their limbs off and shove them up their ass.
     
  3. novarys

    novarys Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    wow, well that was very blunt of you.

    i'm not sure if want children, yet i do. it scares me more than anything, but i think kids are great
     
  4. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    The thought of having kids scares the shit out of me, but I think I would be the most kickass dad ever.
     
  5. peacelovebarefeet

    peacelovebarefeet BuRniN oNe...

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    i want to have kids and i want to introduce them to everything early, like i will be totally open to them that i smoke, and i will introduce them to the good music early... joplin, hendrix, zeppelin, floyd, sublime... i am gunna do everything and say everything that my mom didnt
     
  6. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    i dont want kids...
    but if i ever did have one i would ADOPT!!!
     
  7. soulrebel51

    soulrebel51 i's a folkie.

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    Scared of sex Willy? ;)
     
  8. Strawberry_Fields_Fo

    Strawberry_Fields_Fo RN

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    Good luck explaining to social services why your 4 year-old went to preschool high. God, I've always wanted a pot-head for a dad...:rolleyes:

    Anyway...I would make the best mother in the entire world. I'm going to adopt all my kids from Africa and teach them everything my mother (the current greatest mother and human being on Earth) taught me. Sometimes the thought does scare me, but I know that in the end it will be worth it.
     
  9. JohnnyATL

    JohnnyATL Banned

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    no. (this message is to short)
     
  10. Edward G.

    Edward G. Edwardson

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    hmm... hey, that would be cool. what would really be neat would be to adopt a kid like from every race :D and they could all learn the customs and culture and stuff from every brother/sister's country.
     
  11. Orsino2

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    I love kids... well, they can be frustrating.. but you need to learn their mindsets and kind of get to be one with them and play their games... I used to tutor third grade. I still love kids... I like them because... it's just so... undescribable. There's something in their eyes you don't see in too many adults... a glazed sparkle of innocence.
     
  12. Lucifer Sam

    Lucifer Sam Vegetable Man

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    the real me? Can ya? CAN YA?










    :D
     
  13. Orsino2

    Orsino2 Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    I don't think I can. I'm tired... time to whipout the sleepytime thread.
     
  14. lover/young_peace

    lover/young_peace Senior Member

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    Yes Derek I see the real you. And the real you has a sock-fettish. The real you also wishes he could spend the rest of his life with me in a giant polka-dot painted bathtub! :D

    SO THERE! ;) (Not one of my favorite Who songs, by the way)
     
  15. backtothelab

    backtothelab Senior Member

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    I can. I wanna be a good dad.
     
  16. Lucifer Sam

    Lucifer Sam Vegetable Man

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    Yeah, it's not one of my favorites either, but Quadrophenia is pretty good. [​IMG]
     
  17. lover/young_peace

    lover/young_peace Senior Member

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    You know, you never answered the origanal question.

    Do you ever stay on topic? :p
     
  18. Caitlin

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    I can see myself as a mother..I feel that vibe all the time. Ive had countless pregnancy dreams since a very young age, and theyre always most indescribably beautiful...
     
  19. SunFree

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    I've wondered about this several times before. I don't think I could do it. That might be because I shouldn't be able to see myself as being capable of raising children at this point in my life simply because I'm at this point in my life.

    Other times I feel that if you dont' have children, you miss out on this great joy in life, and you just sort of end with yourself; no part of you is carried on into another generation. The idea of having total responsibility over how a new little human being grows and develops is exciting and empowering, but also terrifying.

    Basically - and I know this sounds terrible, but it's the blunt truth - I think I'm just too selfish to be able to invest every fiber of my life into that of another. I dont' think I would be able to be happy giving up everything I want and putting priorities over my own dreams. I want to be able to stay slightly aloof and disconnected, so that I might be impulsive and fleeting and scatterbrained without seriously damaging some innocent child, and just incase some Wizard suddenly appears in a rip in the fabric of time and says, "Come join me in this dimension, an entire race of people depends on you to save them! It is your destiny, though you cannot say goodbye, and may never see this world again," I want to be able to just leap on through and be the savior for some lost galaxy.

    Also, small children drive me crazy. And I don't know what the 'rules' are, or how you're supposed to act around them or what to do when they throw things at eachother or start crying...
     
  20. Willy_Wonka_27

    Willy_Wonka_27 Surrender to the Flow

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    no not at all...but i think everyone who wants chrildren and can adope should adopt
     

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