Cheating?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Grunge Lord, Jul 11, 2004.

  1. Grunge Lord

    Grunge Lord Member

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    Is cheating ever justified?
    I have this friend and I like his girlfriend and I think the feeling is mutual. But I don't want to hurt my friend.
    Should I go with the what he doesn't know doesn't hurt him or somthing else.. advice please.
     
  2. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

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    Never cheat. Under any circumstances. It can just totally destroy people... One time, my old boyfriend told me he slept with someone else, and I got so sad that I threw up for two days. It was weird. I didn't do it on purpose, I was just so devastated that I got sick. I lost 7 pounds, though! :D
     
  3. Grunge Lord

    Grunge Lord Member

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    Yeah I put myself in his shoes and your right.
    Thanks.
     
  4. Dalee

    Dalee Member

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    I agree.


    Cheating is lying, to yourself and others. Its living in a slimey way, hiding from the light of truth.


    To cheat is to deceive, and there is nothing good in cheating.
     
  5. luvndrumn

    luvndrumn Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    And that is the best way to answer moral dilemmas of this sort - put yourself in the other person's shoes.

    Good on ya.[​IMG]
     
  6. Dalee

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    yea thats awesome that you decided its not worth it man!


    If you think about it, its just a sexual desire.....and is that worth it?


    And if its anything more.....then instead of cheating, find out if the person you like is willing to start a new relationship with you and leave the other eprson, if not, leave it alone
     
  7. dirtygirl_4u2004

    dirtygirl_4u2004 Member

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    If he is your good friend why would you want to hurt him? even if he isn't you still shouldn't do that cheating is not accepatable not at all it has been done to me to many times i know how it feels its not a good feeling if you do it that will make you a heartless person
     
  8. Dalee

    Dalee Member

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    dont cheat steal or kill :)
     
  9. Grunge Lord

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    Thanks guys. You've helped. I won't cheat I could handle it if it were done to me. Thank you all so much.
     
  10. Geth

    Geth Member

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    The only time your cheating could ever be justified is if he cheats on her first. x_x
     
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  12. mystical_shroom

    mystical_shroom acerbic

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    Just say no..
     
  13. HippieInMyHead

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  14. jerry420

    jerry420 Doctor of everything Lifetime Supporter

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    cheating is bad shit
     

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