Complicated Girlfriend

Me and my girlfriend have been together for a while now. She is a very sexual person n we have lots of sex. She has had 5 boyfriends till date of which she was serious with 3 of them. When she told me about her sexual past I was a bit surprised. She had a lot of fuck buddies and one night stands and has told me that her count is 40+. But she never cheated on any of her boyfriends. I didn't mind because I really liked her. It took me around almost 3 months to ask her out because I knew she was hung up on her ex who got married to some other woman. I took my time with her because she's very emotional n I didn't want her to be hung up on her ex when with me. She told me that after she broke up with her ex she just had gone on a fucking spree. You see, the two of us work in the same office but I joined around 7 months after her. I got to know that half of the guys from our department have been with her and even after the two of us met and used to hang out she was sleeping with them. We grew close and she told me about all the guys from work she had slept with. Unfortunately her best fucks were 2 guys who are my work rivals.(I didn't tell her that though)..Her 2nd boyfriend came back in her life but she is just good friends with him. I didn't question her any further. Soon I found out from a mutual friend that a childhood friend of hers asked her out but she said no but instead hung out with him. They both had sex but she told him that she didn't want a relationship with him. I was a bit mad at her so I just went and spoke to her. She told me that she didn't want to fuck him but she did, because she wanted to find out if that guy genuinely liked her or just wanted a good fuck. Later she indirectly told me that wanted me to ask her out but I was taking too much time. She said she could wait but she wouldn't pass a good fuck in the meantime. So I finally asked her out. I know she loves me but I do have jealous moments with her coz she hangs out with many guys which I don't mind but she's slept with them before me, which is why it's awkward. They talk bout how great she is in bed n other stuff when I'm around and she even tried to shut them up, I am ready to bear that coz she at least tries.But the real problem is her ex who got married has gotten in touch with her. It hasn't affected our relationship though. I have confronted her n she has told me they are just good friends. Due to slightly different timings I go to work a bit late. But she on the other hand gets picked up n dropped by him. I went through her msgs(yes we are open bout it) n there was nothing. She even tells me that whenever I stay back late working she goes out for dinner with him n sometimes his wife is present too. This Valentine's day I was called for work i told her that she could go out with her 2nd boyfriend( Yes I'm ok with her having sex with others once in a while as long as there's no emotional attachment). We made love b4 work and later she got ready. She told me she's going out with her friends but if her 2nd ex boyfriend is free she might go with him. Later that night she came home late n I kissed her n gave her a Valentine's gift. I even put my hand under her skirt but I realized her panties were missing. She was slightly drunk too. A couple of days later she told me that her recent ex had taken her out for a long drive. They had a lot of fun. She told me that she didn't have sex but I noticed that she had a couple of light faded type love bites too... U see, I tried to help her get over her ex n now I'm scared that I might lose her. If she would have kept it purely sexual with him I wouldn't mind. But she's still attached to him. N I don't want to lose her. What to do?

 

Lol..for real?

 

Sounds like a recipe for disaster.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-hDU4jaLsEU

 

She doesnt sound complicated

Sounds like she'd screww anything with a penis

Not complicated at all, you can describe her in one sentence.


But dont worry, after you dump this one, Im sure youll go for a frigid one where you dont have to worry about other guys.....then be back here in years to come complaining she never puts out.

Life is funny like that

 

Only 40+? Pfffffffftttt.....She's a lightweight.

Cool story, sounds legit.

Why do all the trolls here have three digits on the end of their usernames? Is this how they promulgate themselves within the site?

 

I wrote a response and then BAM the power went out, right when I was done with me comment. Now, I'm on my phone awaiting the dark, which I have a fear off. I called my mom to come over, but she can't. Hopefully, she will have pity on me and come over. I can't be alone when darkness hits. Well, I have dogs. Agh.

Let's get to rewriting the comment.

There are many women who stay friends and hang out with their ex boyfriends and lovers. So, that's not uncommon. However, I don't think there are a lot of women that are as into sex as your girlfriend is. Then again she is quite honest about her endeavors, so that's good.

All in all, talking to her, asking her what the deal is with this other guy, reestablishing the standards in your relationship, and sharing your concerns is the best you can do.

If she detours from this in any way, then it's time to call it quits. However, if you want to settle that's fine too. There are plenty of people who aren't completely happy in their relationship, but settle because at least they're with the one they love.

 

i didn't read the wall of text. i just came in to point out that saying "complicated girlfriend" is kind of redundant, because aren't they all?

 

Oh, like you guys are any easier.

I wish I can do the angry smiley, but I can't.
Just know I'm looking at my iPad very angrily.

 

to be fair, i was mostly just making a joke. but if there was a complicatedness contest, i do think you guys would pull ahead in the fourth quarter.

 

But, you guys aren't good at showing emotion. That's a pretty complicated person there. At least we are honest and show you our emotions.

 

eh, sometimes. you folks hide a lot too, or show a little sign of maybe some sort of emotion and expect us to know exactly what it means.

we don't show emotion because you guys get pissed off when we do.

 

Ex boyfriend, is that you?

Oh, yea... I went there.
*throws mic on floor*
I'm out.

 

Im detecting a lot of sexual tension now between you and Undies

 

Aw, I think someone is jealous. Don't worry Undies got bored of me after I sent him a photo of my beehive. So, he will come back to you in good time... to give you some sweet, sweet, loving.

I wish people on here missed me like people miss Undies.

 

those are pretty big shoes to fill...

i didn't get bored of you, i've just been busy vigorously masturbating to your beehive pic.

 

See, that's the kind of thing that makes you know who jealous. They want you to vigorously masturbate to them too.

 

it's true. VG knows that i have only the mildest enthusiasm when i masturbate to him.

 

Why? I thought he was all that and a bag of cheese puffs.

 

i masturbate harder to the cheese puffs.

to be fair, i masturbate pretty hard to cheese puffs.