Confused, need some help

Discussion in 'Bisexual' started by Right_foot189, Aug 10, 2011.

  1. Right_foot189

    Right_foot189 Guest

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    Basically I'm a teenage male, and have always considered myself straight. However I've always been a bit interested in males but nothing that would ever make me worry about or think about to much. However recently I've become alot more interested in males finding myself attracted to them.

    The problem is that my feelings towards males are almost insignificant compared to how I feel for females but there are feelings there none the less and I do get turned on by men.

    I would also like to point out that I have yet to have sex ( with either gender, Haven't met the right person) and I have done NOTHING with any men.

    I'm very confused as some times I will feel very confident that I could be bi, while other times I will feel 100% straight. Can anyone help me with this?
     
  2. TheGhost

    TheGhost Auuhhhhmm ...

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    From what you say it's not easy to determine. Confusion is not an uncommon thing. I say just go ahead with what you feel.

    Since you state that you haven't had sex yet all the options are open. But there's no problem with "wait and see".
     
  3. Crayola

    Crayola =)

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    exactly.

    U don't need to label yourself (bi, straight or gay) to be happy.
     
  4. dreamsDOcomeTRUE

    dreamsDOcomeTRUE KYTLIVE

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    Your just bi-curious at this moment with both sexes, you have a lot of time to figure this out

    You can try to talk to someone from both sexes that you are attracted to and see how you feel towards both.
     
  5. LewTheCodfish21

    LewTheCodfish21 Guest

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    i agree with dreams^; get to work and talk to someone in both genders, you'll quickly see the differences work themselves out and answers will come pouring in.
     
  6. Right_foot189

    Right_foot189 Guest

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    Thank you for your kind words =] I get the wait and see, but its the mixed emotions, hormones and feelings that's giving me a lot of stress about the whole thing. I can try and put it to the back of my mind, but I was wondering if you had any advice you could give to help put my mind at east a little? It's all very new and out of my comfort zone and in new tertiary
     
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