I've been talking to this guy for over a month. We hit it off really quickly and were getting along really well. Things seemed to be heading in a good direction, and we were flirting incessantly and talking about getting together when he came here in December. I may have made the mistake in telling him how I felt. I mean, I kind of thought it was obvious by the way I was acting, but I spilled anyway. (I have a habit of jumping the gun and putting my foot in my mouth... he knows this already, trust me.) Well, he thought it was sweet, didn't say anything back, which I don't think I really expected anyway. And we seemed okay until a few days later. He got really busy all of a sudden. And we would talk back and forth a little, but it was a lot less than before. He said he was busy and that he wished he had more time for me and all that stuff. He apologized a lot when I told him I missed him. And I felt bad for him apologizing so I stopped telling him I missed him. I just talked to him when I could. Now, we have even less time. I went through a really rough time the past week, and I've been very down. I try not to let that effect the way I interact with him, but it has. Finally, after some prodding from him, I spilled. We had good conversation, and he was really sweet and considerate, like he used to be. But then, our communication dropped to like two sentences an exchange. And I hate this! If he's busy, it's one thing.... but if he is just avoiding me, I wish he'd say something so that I can just back off completely, or whatever. What do you think? (Sorry this is kind of long.... )
one way to fine out its_des10e ask him then you will know what is up.....cause going throu what you have for a week is really bad on a person..... i hate to make it sound so simple but asking is one way of fining out what he is going to do
