When other issues are at work in a person and it makes the person sad and depressed and the person tells his/her bf/gf that this is what is going on and the person writes down his or her feelings and then gets attacked for having her feelings what should she do? First of all I am feeling like shit, I don't like to drink coffee and quite frankly I don't really like being myself right now because no matter how hard I try to not offend or upset anyone it ends up happening, no one seems to be able to put themselves in my shoes or even try, like I do for them, and even when I try to just be myself unfiltered I still get such conflict from people that I want to understand. I have a lot of horrible traumatic emotional shit that has happened to me that keeps coming back and stifles the hell out of me and no one understands and no one seems to care, I try to overcome it and I do for a while but when it comes back why does no one try to understand and why do they pick on me and try to blame everything on me and act like they know what I"m going through without ever trying to know the situation. And why is it that I can't be selfish and just do what is best for me no matter how it might hurt someone else's feelings like everyone else does, especially men, (from what I've heard and observed) and why do people have to be so harsh and go to such extremes when they're upset and why can't they try to be rational and why do they focus only on one aspect of a situation when they're upset rather than trying to see the whole picture? And why do people get so upset if you say something honest, and calmly if it is negative and they don't want to deal with it so they have to attack you or something...idk wtf i'm talking about. ..........................i feel like total shit. I mean why can't you have a civil conversation just because it's not a happy subject doesn't mean it's not important and doesn't exist....whatever.s ..
So you're saying you can't be selfish because you don't have a penis? I'm not sure I see the connection.
I'm not saying I can't I'm saying I don't know how, It's not because I don't have a penis it's because unlike many boys are raised, many girls, including myself, were raised to be nourishers and put others before myself therefore I have a hard time doing otherwise.
So wait, you're telling me if you were raised to lick people's asses, then that's what you're stuck with? Well that sucks.
I'm saying that if I was raised to lick people's asses and I always thought it was a good thing to do, when I realized I didn't like doing it anymore it would be hard to just make myself stop even though I'd want to, it'd take a long time for me to get over my feeling that it is a good thing to do regardless of the fact taht I didn't want to do it anymore...thanks for playing
i too feel this exact same way!!! and mera, i love you and am so sorry to hear of what you are going through....you are in my thoughts....its not easy right now for you....just go into yourself and be with you...thats what i have to do... i look into a mirror that has been cursed, one that is only showing me all my ugly parts and therefore making me my ugliness and its scaring the day lights out of me...please don't allow this to happen to you... i do so love you and wish i could hug you right now...i hate to read of your pains.....it does hurt my heart(even though i try to convince myself that i dont have one) you will be with me today darling and hang in there
I feel in the same way, unfortunately! Most of the time I play the role of a happy and careless person. But when I started to share my problems just like the others do, everyone turned against me. I'm moving to another town and I'm really depressed about that. When I shared that with my friends they reacted so harsh that... Can't they understand that I'm depressed simply because I appreciate our friendship!?!
