corrupting a sheltered 21 yr old

I have a friend Mary.. she is 21 and is still a virgin.. and has no real life experiences to speak of.. now when i corupt.. i dont mean in a bad way.. just get her some life experiences and actually act like a 21 yr old.. she still is childish and has never gotten the fun that most people our age have.. and im just looking for some sane ideas.. my friends and i want to start off slow as not to scare her away.. she said she wants to be corrupted but has a hard time breaking out of that imature mold.. so any ideas would be apreciated

 

Why the need to corrupt? Why not be happy with the person she is?

 

I think we should hook her up with my best friend. He's the exact same description, only, he's a guy. It would be healthy for both of them!

 

I don't believe she will go anywhere as long as she sees it as "corruption" when she is sexually shy to begin with. She needs to actually understand that sex is a beautiful, positive thing that can make her whole, provided that it is practiced with care. Why not tell her it is not "corruption" she needs to undergo but sexual "enlightenment"?

I can see you mean well since you say you don't want to scare her off with the idea, so you're at least on the right track. I would say, get her to be more comfortable with her own sexuality before anything. Playing with the idea of "being corrupted" should wait at least until she has become accustomed to her own sexuality...is what I think. Because, well, the last thing she needs is to misunderstand the whole concept of sex and sexuality, that it is "dirty" or "sinful" or something like that.

That's my opinion, anyway.

 

well i havent talked about sex with her yet.. that comes later.. i just want her to see the world in more then one light.. the more she experiences in life the more she is gonna appreciate it.. before sex i want her to learn how to have a good time.. thats goal number 1.. im just looking for ideas.. things that we can do to widen her horizon a little... like i said before she has some childish things she needs to let go of

 

Alcohol

 

Have her volunteer at the Salvation Army or something. It will expose her to different kinds of people and get her to make new friends.

Or you could find a bar band that she likes and help her follow them.

 

im starting with the hockey play off games at my friends bar.. yes there is a lot of alcohol.. and she has never had a drink in her life!!.. so this is gonna be interesting

 

Just give her some LSD.

 

Give her some rohypnol and leave her in a bar on the shady side of town.

 

rent a very fast car with no top.... lock in on a serious drug collection and drive it in a direction...... preferably south to mexico........then take her to a donkey show...

oughta do the trick........

 

Get her drunk, but definitely watch how much she drinks and have an idea in your head about how much is too much. If you can't, get someone to, because trust me, you don't want to scar her. When I start drinking, it takes a lot to make me stop, my boyfriend literally has to take my drink away from me and hide it until I've come down enough that he knows I won't get sick. One night, they weren't really watching me and I ended up downing half a pint of Crown Royal by myself (mixed with various sodas, mind you). I'm only 5'1" and 125 pounds, so that's a lot. I didn't throw up, but I went hysterical, and now I can barely stand the smell of the stuff. You don't want to ruin her from alcohol forever on the first time.

 

Umm... A half pint is barely more than a mini-mickey.

 

Get a bunch of friends together to go to a seedy porn shop. I bet thatll be a real eye-opener for her. Better still, get her drunk, then go to the porn shop.

 

rent a very fast car with no top.... lock in on a serious drug collection and drive it in a direction...... preferably south to mexico........then take her to a donkey show...

oughta do the trick........

LOL

 

It was one of the first times I ever drank! I'm a lightweight. I don't drink that often.

 

I like th porn shop idea.. that will scar her LOL!

 

Pass the blunt in Dazed and Confused style: "Are you cool man?"
Beer: Yes
Beer-Bong: Better
Cocanie: No
Strip Club: Maybe... I don't like them but this one girl I knew always wanted lap dances...
Porn Shop: Share a booth and make a move

 

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