Counselor screwed me

My college queer counselor got me into his bed. We didn't have sex. But he wanted to. I can't believe that he betrayed my trust. I have lost all faith in humanity. Can you believe my life? I can't, and I'm still stuck living it, for now...

 

If all else fails, repress the memory.

 

Sue the school....unless you enjoyed it..in that case....do it again....not really clear what your beef is?

 

One particular Phys Ed teacher in high school, I estimate I spanked over 1000 times thinking about him, would have given my left nut for him to betray my trust.


I dont know what you are on about, even if he was an ugly bastard, you'll still be able to tell your Grandnieces you nailed your Counsellor in College

 

yo i'm sorry for you. really i am. its tough to be in that kind of situation, especially if you trusted that person. but you need to face the fact that what has been done is done. you can not change a thing about this situation, and it's probably for the best. all of these sarcastic comments that the others posted don't help. i hope that this one has.

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"You're nothing but a deck of cards!" says Alice in Wonderland

 

never mind! Stuff like this probably happens everyday =S don't stress. You didn't have sex with him...and even if you did it's not the end of the universe. wishing you well =)

 

How did he get you into his bed?

 

what the heck is a "college queer counselor"?

 

HAHAHAHA! Good question! Never heard of one... But I can only assume that is a counselor that specifically deals with gay students.

 

Sorry to hear that this guy betrayed your trust. He should have never done this.

Yet, this is one of life's valuable lessons. Counselors, teachers. docs, etc, are only people, too. Inexcusable as this may be, their urge/drive may at times cloud their better judgement.

Your job is to be on your guard while promoting your best interest. Think about this: whenever you lock the door of your home, you are expressely saying that you do not trust your fellow humans and the honesty of their intentions. Yet, we all lock our homes in this time and age. Not because locks can't be broken but mostly because we do not want to tempt anyone.

KD

 

Some Unis / Colleges nowadays have GLBT specific counsellors, as do some hospitals etc, some police forces have GLBT liason officers etc.

Dont know if this is what the OP is referring to or if he's just saying one of his standard counsellors is queer

 

my thoughts exactly, we didn't have any of that crap in the south

also, if you physically got into bed with him OP it's pretty obvious you wanted it. Whew, there were a lot of teachers I would have paid for in highschool...

 

So thanks everyone. Just everyone for even responding. Yeah, it is a counselor who deals with people who are having difficulties related to LGBT issues on campus. He said that he was going to help me with my homework...can you believe this garbage? And then he had me sit on the bed, and then there was unwanted touching and, well, I had serious trust issues before this all happened, and now, I'm never going to be able to get close to guys at all. Thank God I was able to get out of there, though he shouted at me that I'd better never tell anyone. I might report him. I'm trying to.

 

my emotions are badly wounded, and I'm not going to recover. Anorexia was worse than ever today, and I threw up after dinner because I ran into him (literally) in the dining hall. tried cutting myself, but I didn't have anything sharp enough, as per my psychologist's suggestion, so it just hurt and I didn't draw blood. Today was definitely a low.

 

LOL, he was a GLBT specific one, then WTF?


Forget about the bedroom thing, I would assume College policy would be no kind of interaction outside campus grounds, that you were anywhere near his private residence would be enough to report him.

Maybe stick with Lesbian counsellor for now, If there is something specific you need a GLBT counsellor for. I could give you the speil that not all Gay Counsellors are going to hit on you. But if theres something you need total trust on, with someone there is zero sexual tension with, then talk with your local Lesbian. Straight female one likely to be more clueless

 

please stop the cutting..you are just making a big problem bigger...the goal is to make your problem smaller...even if it is little by little...you have no choice here if you want to help your self...no one can feel sorry[i cant]for some one that piles shit on top of a shitty situation ....think about it...he hurt you..and now you are hurting you....i dont get it... /

 

maybe they have a cutting counselor too

 

Yeah Rolling. I hate me too. W/e.

 

Yeah BBAD, they do. She's been helpful. Seeing her Tuesday. Too bad she actually follows the rules and doesn't see me outside the office. I could really use her right about now.

 

okay my bad I apologize for my previous remark, I didn't know the touching was unwanted. But you don't need all these rapist counselors dude, just get a fag hag you can trust