Creeperville vs. Compliments

Where is the line drawn between creeperville and (friendly) compliments?

Discuss and provide examples..

How do you know when you've entered creeperville territory?

 

That's a hard one :/
But a lot has to do with how well they know you.

 

true

 

the difference between being a creeper and being flirty is your level of attractiveness to the other person.

 

eg1) Morning Katie, thats a nice new hairstyle.
COMPLIMENTARY

eg2)oooh yum yum little girl. your hair feels so soft. would you like to try my candies....
CREEPERISH

Sorry I'm prob not helping.. :redface:

OK seriously, I think this relates to PR's comments in another thread. I think PR is a good guy and I would never consider him remotely "creeperish".

What I DO think is extremely creepy however is attention seeking/ attention whoring. People who go out of their way to fish for, and attract compliments, as part of some points game. Often as part of a strategy to insult perceived rivals etc.
Often managing to extract compliments/ "points" from unwitting givers.

I really don't get all this stuff trying to seek "validation" by lobbying, insincere smarm/charm and shit. Such lame people need to get a life, IMO.

In general terms ,with Wastebook, and social networking its getting more and more pronounced.
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How do I know when I've entered creeperville territory?
Well I just take any compliments/charming I receive in the context of that person's overall behaviour and psychology.

I give people the benefit of the doubt for a while. But I can identify creepy people by just asking "do I trust this person?"

 

I thought Radiohead made creeps cool

 

cute feet, can I suck on your toes? ..

 

nice shoes....dtf?

 

okay..

I'm not wearing any shoes..

 

I don't think he's creepy either. I'm just making fun of him, and myself, I guess.

 

Can we just all admit that we're a community of Friendly creeps?..

 

cool thats one less item to take off.

 

yeah, that's exactly what I was thinking

 

I knew
I've come across one or two pretty creepy types at HF (mentioning no names..) but PR certainly isn't one of them.. hehe

 

hey, that's my jam

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhFSmAoGhhc"]Radiohead - Creep - YouTube

 

Yup.

 

Not sure if we're all that friendly.. :-/

I mean the Great RT Meetup of 2000 and whatever, was actually cancelled on the grounds of "serious risk of multiple homicides" )

Murderers *do* tend to be creepy tho..

 

I concur.

 

Now can you please show me your tits

 

who?