Cuddling

If you are in a relationship with somebody of your sexual preference, is cuddling with another person of that same sex acceptable when your partner is not around?

 

ummm..... i would be pretty upset if i was with a girl and she was cuddling with some other guy. but then again, i'm pretty upset that i lost my girl

 

so long as you talk it over with your partner. I love cuddling, I'll cuddle with anyone I'm comfortable with. It's completely nonsexual, I just leech their body heat that's all But you gotta make sure it's ok with your partner first

 

yea, i would feel really uncomfertable and jealous if my bf was getting cozy, even if it meant nothing, with another girl. and i KNOW i wouldnt really enjoy it with anyone else except my bf. but thats just me.

 

for me, cuddling is like sharing your "chi" energy or something. Now I don't believe in chi, but I do believe that there's something fairly intimate and personal that passes between two people cuddling. I don't that people should only cuddle with the people they are closest to (family... boy/girlfriends... etc)... unless you're in a totally open relationship, in which case it probably doesn't matter either way since there's no disease or anything involved in cuddling.

 

Besides my dogs I really can't stand cuddeling with anyone unless I'm really digging somone and then I love to cuddle all the time

 

I cuddle with two people only...

My nephew and my boyfriend...

Oh and my kitty cat...

Anyone else? No way, because I feel it would be disrespectful to my boyfriend. That is what we do with our time together and to share it with someone else, just doesn't seem right.

 

that uhh that sounds a bit weird, i'm pretty sure in a relationship you are only supposed to do that and other things like that with your partner.

 

I cuddle only with my husband and my family. As for my husband, he is a very reserved and shy man, not so touchy-feely, so to see him cuddling with another woman or man would be a shock...completely out of character for him, and might hurt my feelings. Cuddling is an intimate thing for us, and I personally don't let anyone's body as close to mine as my husbands.

Generally, though, I don't see anything wrong with it as long as it is within the boundries of your relationship. Everyone is different, relationships are different - I would suggest seeing how your partner felt about it and respecting their feelings on the issue.

 

To me cuddling is very intimate, I wouldn't feel comfortable cuddling with anyone else except with my partner. And I'd be really jealous if he shared that kind of intimacy with someone else.

 

I agree with Kozmic. Cuddling's too intimate to share with someone other than my boyfriend or family. I have OCD and it drives me absolutely insane when anyone I'm not comfortable with even touches me, and as far as cuddling goes, I'm only comfy with my family and Daniel.

 

I would say it's not okay. I only cuddle my partner and my family and i wouldn't like it if i found my partner cuddling someone else. I'm funny about physical contact though. I don't like strangers or people i don't really like touching me.

 

i'm a cuddle whore. i love to cuddle with everyone. i cuddle with my friends. it doesn't mean anything. it's not like you're fucking.

 

You could make this same argument about sucking dick.

 

hmmm its a contentious one.

I dont think I would like it if he cuddled another, but I guess it depends on te cuddle too, you know if it was like a greeting or departing cuddle, that would be okay.

 

I might catch hell for this, but I also find the idea of cuddling parties a little bit creepy. I'm not judging anyone who does attend them or would, but...man...I couldn't do that. Once again my whole fear of anyone I don't know touching me.

 

Yeah, because i don't like to be touched by other people, i have a hard time with my partner being touched. It takes me a lot of effort to allow someone to touch me. If i see my partner cuddling someone else it makes me feel uncomfortable. I'm not sure why, but i don't handle it real well, as he's found out

 

i wouldn't cuddle with a stranger, but i would with friends. if i'm at an altered state of mind, then I sometimes need that cuddle and I don't have a person in my life right now.

 

I LOVE to cuddle! I cuddle my b/f and my friends all the time! I like to cuddle with my girlfriends, it's not sexual, just comfy! PLus, sometimes all you need is a hug and someone to cuddle up against!

 

Ahh, Bumble. You'd get a cuddle from me anytime darl.