cuddling

Some people hate it, did you know that? But I love it, I could cuddle for hours at a time, and when I hug someone, I never wannna let go. I don't know why, I love feeling people I like. Guys seem to hate it though. They think I wanna fuck, but sometimes, I actually just wanna cuddle. Just that.

 

I can do anything with the one I care for..I especially love to be held....but if the groove isnt there I am very very reserved

 

I'm not a cuddler. I mean if I feel like crap I like to be held for a couple of minutes. haha Oh and I hate to hold hands.

 

I love holding a woman. nothing like having a beautiful lady in your arms but, after sex, I just want a sandwich

 

I don't hold hands, it's gay. I put my hand in the back pocket of their pants, usually.

I just love being held and touched. Like a cat.

 

cuddling...i can go either way. depends on the girl. haha

 

I like to be held around the waist. I just like to touch all over, I dont even care :H Ill crawl into your lap if you are at the computer, it can be annoying, but mostly cute :H

 

i love to cuddle, even if its just with a girl whos my friend, its a sense of closeness, and cuddling doesnt mean you have sex with that person, its just a sense of closeness and togetherness, hell i have slept with a fair bit of my friends who are girls, its a good thing that people be that close with out sexual feelings

 

Cate's a kino girl

 

i love cuddling
but it's a complicated issue with me
cuddling involves a sense of trust
i have trust issues
and often guys don't want to cuddle with me
they want sex
which makes the trust issues go even deeper

 

hehehe define that hyphy :H

 

I know, it's great, I wish I could cuddle with my guy friends too. But my guy friends would think I wanna fuck them if I did that.. but not necessarily. If I wanna have sex I make clear, I don't just hug and cuddle... that means nothing... nothing sexual. Unless I make it sexual but there's different kinds of cuddling.

 

I know what you mean. If a guy starts cuddling me I know they want sex. I haven't met a guy yet who can just cuddle for comfort and tenderness...

 

kino - kinosthetic - touch
kino girl - girl that likes to touch/ be touched.
it's not a bad thing by any means. you've never heard of Erik Von Markovik? he coined the phrase. he's Canadian.

 

Yes that is exactly the icky part. I dont like "new" cuddles. As in someone I dont know well who cuddles me really quick. I know its for sex.

 

aw ya I am a very touchy person wen I am comfortable ... I havnt heard of that guy!

 

that's the beauty of kino escalation.

 

some guys just get the wrong idea, but you cant expect sex from a friend just cause she is hugging a cuddling with you, if there was no other signs that she had that intentions then why all of a sudden would it be any different, expescially if theyre your friend they should be able to tell you how they feel, ive had only one friend that was cuddling with me for other the reason of liking me and wanting to kiss me but i didnt have the same feelings towards her, i felt bad after because she put herself out there and got sorta turned down, but we are still friends which is good

 

I think I'm a kino girl too! But yeah new people who wanna cuddle right away.. that just grosses me out. Unless I am very attracted to them, and want something sexual too. And that I am probably drunk. But when I'm not comfortable with someone I'll never wanna cuddle them... for comfort, for being sweet... I get very capricorn then, icy cold, super distant.

 

like i said, it depends on the girl and what level we have together.

just cuddling is awesome, especially when ya have a deep connection with the person. its awesome ot just hold the lady and its a great feeling as a man if i can give that sort of comfort.