Well......I've never had anal sex. I'm so curious about what it feels like though..but Im really scared about it hurting because my pussy is already tighter than most. I've never had any boyfriends that have done it and i wanted someone experienced to have anal sex with me..so I've never gotten to do it
I'm not a big girl and I enjoy anal. A lot of it depends on the guy and position. I find that it I'm fingered first entry is not uncomfortable and relaxed; if a guy just tries to shove it in, well it just hurts . I prefer to start with being entered while lying on my side and then proceed to other positions if I want. Once I'm off to a start after a little while I can be fucked hard/fast or whatever no problem. If I'm on my back and have a guy enter my ass face to face as it were I find I can orgasm due to friction, otherwise I just find it horny. Anal sex is different and you either love it or hate it I think. The reason I wanted to do it is the curiousity - I thought if millons of gay guys do it as part of healthy love-making, it must be kinda nice :2thumbsup: It took a while for me to overcome the initial 'clampin up' and to relax, but that just becomes second nature after a bit of practice. Shayla x
Seriously, just try to chill, have a couple of wines, make sure it's lubed, make him lube it, make him gently finger it so its ready. Makes a big difference!
where are you from? would love to know you dear. i would help you with any fantasy,desire,or fetish you were interested in exploring!
Im not gay , never had guy fuck me in my asre. But im fucking myself with realistic dildo very hard , and im telling you honestly its best feeling in this world!! Im sooo horny and wild! It takes patience and time, you dont need lube that much unless it hurts. Key is you gotta be very very horny and relaxed to maximum. Longer you do it , it becomes better babe! I use 7,5 realistic dildo , sit on it and squat , first slowly and gentle and then my horny warm bum is fully relaxed and ready for some serious pounding i increase rytme and go wild on it. First time i simply could not believe how good it is, it hurts litle ! But love it! I can feel electricty all over my body on that point when i reach max pleasure, i moan like litle whore and im completely in world of pleasure. I never told my wife, but i find it more pleasurable when fucking myself and esp ORGASAM! ITS M I N D B L O W I N G! i swear to you , i literaly screamed for ybout 30-45 sec when mastrubating my cock and stimulating prostate. Its amazing for both girls and gals, but we men have more never endings and ofc prostate gland so we are blessed. Just do it, first start with fingers, lots of lube , take a deep breath , then 2 fingers, then cock head , be horny, relax and dont worry!!! It WILL hurt at start!!! But all that pain will be rewarded at the end!! DO IT!
Anya, You must be new to this forum. I have known a number of women who could ONLY cum from anal sex. Anal frees up access to your clit, either with your finger or a vibrator, making your orgasm almost guaranteed. I knew one woman who achieved tremendous orgasms from the cowgirl position alone. While riding my cock she would rub her clit against me and WOW! Waiting until she came and then finishing up inside her ass was so good. My wife is one of those women who never had an orgasm from sex until we got together and she experimented with anal and a vibrator. She usually has two cums from our sex sessions and once in awhile she achieves a triple treat. I suggest you try again, with a gentle and caring lover, while paying attention to your clit. Wishing you success,
I don't have to understand the female orgasm. I just listen to what she tells me later about it. If she tells me she never had one before, either with me or anyone else, and then started having them when she tried anal for the 1st time should I doubt her? BUT, if you are too sexist to trust the opposite gender on this issue I suggest you read the many testimonials from females on just this topic in this forum. It has been discussed many times before.
Anal is awesome. Sometimes it helps to have your partner use fingers first, then making sure to use plenty of lube, and maybe drink a bit to loosen yourself up and laugh off the pain. It'll hurt a little bit, but as long as he goes slow, you'll be okay. Don't give up if you hurt the first time, because it's awesome. Try some anal play before doing it fully!
As I tried to tell you, you're not the only (rather opinionated) girl out there. Yes, I have known a fair number of women who cum from anal & clitoral stimulation and you do not believe me. So what? Just take the time to look up the subject on this forum because many people of both sexes have written about it. Some girls even claim they can cum from anal alone although they are a rare breed. I don't think I have ever met one either. You are wasting your time trying to cum from anal alone and I was trying to help you find satisfaction by relating my personal experience with various girlfriends and from talks with my wife. BTW, there is another forum "Women's Health Anal Sex" that contains literally hundreds of rave testimonials from women about their anal orgasms - yes, and that means anal with clit involved in most cases. Quit trying to over catagorize pleasure. It just takes away the pleasure.
I've been told that during Anal Sex with a female the penis can press against the Anal membrane, stimulating the G-Spot on the other side. However, other posts have also refuted this claim, so I imagine the ultimate solution to the question lies entirely in the woman's own experience.
Some say that the prostate is men´s G spot. In Spain they put dildos of the sice of a 2 Litres (half a gallon) botle into bull´s butt, and they even put some electrycity in. That´s how they get big loads. Don´try this at homearty:
It's not only agriculture that electroelaculation is used in. There are also instances where a man, for one reason or another, is otherwise impotent & is unable even to manage an erection, let alone an ejaculation. In conditions like this it's not uncommon for sperm to be harvested using electroejaculation to be used for artificial insemination. The following link demonstrates how it works: http://www.xtube.com/watch.php?v=GYOPw-C519-
Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned.. The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and sphincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all. Anal play for beginners Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY. First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure. Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP! Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in. Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug. Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK! After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco! GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE! The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
I usually give my wife a nice long massage and get her really turned on. Then I tease around her pussy until she gets very excited. When she is begging for it I get her up in doggy style and give her oral till she has climaxed. Once she is satisfied and very relaxed I lube up my cock and ease it in. Just get relaxed and start out slow.
Completely agree with this. I only have anal experience with one guy, an ex, and while I was initially hesitant to try (fear of pain) I ended up REALLY enjoying it....I think the many alcohoic beverages I enjoyed beforehand helped!
