Dating a dude that's prettier than you...

Hahaha...Actually, same with me..This thread was just a joke


BTW, I love your attitude !

 

If you can get a guy that's better looking than you, then go for it, if the guys going to get hit on anyway, you might as well be the one that has him locked down. When you say prettier though, are you talking feminine features, or just using pretty as a general term for good looking?

I'm going to make a generalization based on personal experience; asians prefer prettier men, westerners prefer more manly men.

 

When I say pretty, I think hot and goodlooking in general.

But now that I think about it, I actually think we're on the same level and deserve each other
Okay, that sounded a bit arrogant, but okay...

 

did you read all the comments on that? fucking outrageous, people. you lose nothing when you empathize. people always have to make it a pissing contest. i'm not as pretty as i used to be. it's easier now.

 

Well I don't really know what you mean, but it sounds good to me. Heyyy wait a minute, is this topic about me Piaf?

 

Maybe...Are you prettier than me ?

 

Fuck that. Nothing is perfect, and if they expect it to be, if they expect to be getting sympathy then well they really arent the "smart ones".

If you dont want to be the pretty girl, dont. Dont wear make up etc etc all those women were wearing it.

And im not saying its easier than being ugly, but people assume crap about me the minute they see me too, they do it to everyone. And i havent seen a programme about how hard it is to be ugly.

Plus lets face it, those people didnt exactly come off too great - like when the woman near the beginning was laughing and all happy because she got something or other for free...

 

pain is relative. it hurts no one to allow another their self pity from time to time.

 

I don't think it matters, if you want to be with someone who the fuck cares if their 'prettier' than you? Plus, if your talking model pretty, I think most male models are kinda ugly so...

 

I think that's the whole point of the video actually.

That pretty people are NOT special in the sense that they also have challenges of their own; flaws and qualities of their own.

 

Sweet Jesus some people are so superficial......Seriously, when you date someone isn't the ideal to find love with them so that there's that chance you two might be together for many years (perhaps even the rest of your lives?). I mean I do realize that looks matter, for attracting purposes (ie. that initial "get to know" stage), and many animals use physical displays to attract mates as well.....aren't we (humans) better than that? I've come to the conclusion that we aren't, in fact we are worse in more than just one way, however our ability to interpret thought with the ultimate outcome being any form of art is beautiful.

If we are given the ability to LOVE the way that we do, then why base so much solely off looks? People assume far to much when they see that an individual is "good looking". So, does it matter if your mate is better looking than you? Fuck no....that's a ridiculous question. In the eyes of society does it matter...hmmmm I suppose so, but look at what our society has become and that pretty much sums up this new age view in which love is portrayed as any other commodity that one "cannot do without". All people do is consume, and why do they do so? Because they buy into bullshit like this, without once thinking for themselves in regards to what love really is.

 

yet another person shocked and appalled to find out human beings are animals.

 

Yes, I'm guilty of that.

 

my now boyfriend is definitely the best lookin' man i've ever been with. he's cute. for some odd reason i seem to attract ugly men. i try not to be shallow and look past that.

 

lol. everyone picks their mate for a reason that SOMEONE can poke holes in.

 

whats wrong with being superficial?

 

ugly people don't like it.

 

I don't date pretty men. I'm just not as attracted to the pretty ones. I like rough and rugged men.

 

i take him getting hit on all the time (by guys AND girls) as a compliment to me. it means i got me a hot ass dude! every once in a blue moon i get all hormonal and cry my eyes out because everyone hits on him and no one hits on me, and i feel really bad for a little while. then i get back to myself and realize just how awesome it is that i have this guy in my bed every night that everyone we meet when we're out wants to be in my spot, lol! i feel really lucky.

but i'm not a very jealous person... and we have a relationship that has the potential to be open... so i'm ok with other people hitting on him/me because you know... it just might happen, and that could be kinda fun! that's just me though, so i don't know how that would work for you.

but i think it's the ultimate compliment when others find your mate attractive. there has to be a trust issue between you and your mate though... like, you have to trust them to be honest with you, whether you're monogomous or not... and if that trust isn't there, there's no point in a relationship, IMO.