Exactly what the title suggests. What are some good dating tips for someone who's highly introverted and enjoys that much needed alone time?
I'm pretty much a loner/introvert myself, and my current situation with my gf is perfect for me since she is away 5 days a week for her job and I see her 2 days a week. Although I do miss her when she's gone, and I love having her around when she's here, I still appreciate having my time to myself too. So I guess my advice would be: find someone who has a life. That way you'll get the together time you crave occasionally, but still have enough time to yourself while your partner is busy with that job/life.
Are you an introvert or are you totally socially hopeless and lost? If you can find someone who isn't put off when you don't send out the kind of signals they're probably used to, then the rest of it will be easy. The biggest problem I've found (yes, I'm an introvert too) is getting girls to realize that I'm not uninterested. But as long as they know what's going on and believe you when you tell them about it(a lot of people will think they know you better than you know yourself), things should be okay. There are a lot of people out there who just won't have the patience for you, but if you can find someone with a good heart who can understand where you're coming from and connect with that, I'd say you'll probably be much happier than someone in one of those cookie-cutter relationships, because it's all the more special when it actually happens. Just be especially open and upfront about everything, and you won't have any problems, and even if you do, at least you're being honest.
This is pretty much what I was thinking as well, but what seems the problem usually, at least for me, is that I'm not sure if I know where exactly is a good place to look. Bars are a terrible place for someone like me to meet women, and everyone else I've ever talked to has suggested that for me. Most of the women in bars are on the very other end of "my type", and I'm not a very big fan of alcohol. It can get a bit irritating. And, a lot of people who go to bars are looking for one night stands, at least in my expierence. I've thought up a few ideas, like maybe just hanging out at a Library as I like to read, and then just keeping an eye out for something lovely I suppose that's where my problem is most of the time is knowing where to go to find a girl, and while it doesn't worry me much, I would like to meet someone.
Could try like art classes and stuff like that. Girls that do art tend to be more introverted, well except for me. But lots of them are very lovely people, very good at expressing themselves. Tiffany
