dealing with these types of guys

I enjoy the casual sex deal. lately though, Ive been getting mean guys. Just stupid. Im sadly going to miss the one guy i been having sex for for a long while. he treated me like a queen. called me sexy, beautiful. never put me down

hes moving out of state so i looked for another guy. I picked my friend cousin, whos my friend. Hes nice and everything but he talks a lot of bullshit that i dont want to hear. Hes very very egocentric and i cant like joke with him about things. or else he'll come up with a cheap insult to me. and make me mad.

I jokingly said well if you're not gonna touch my tits ill get some one else to! and people that know me, they know im joking. he says go ahead, i saw this cute girl at the gas station, i can have a new pair before the sun ggoes down!

I laugh it off and say well i know you're joking cause i am. he proceeded to tell me he wasnt and i shrugged it off. and said go ahead..

this guy is 300+ lbs. not really that attractive, (to me he is) only thing he has going for him is that hes very funny and down to earth.

I doubt hes serious about the women he sleeps with, or proclaims to, but I have a clue Im the "hottest" girl he had in a while.. cause whenever im fed up with him..he uses logic and tries to get me to stay....even though he talked b.s on how he can get any girl.

its drama yes. but really, I cant find anyone better atm. Its guys like this that doesnt want me to like being single anymore.. what are signs that i should look for to find a better friend with benefits?

or try to get him to treat me better**

 

I gotta idea.

Wait till you find you a guy that is good BEFORE you fuck him.

You're constantly complaining about the guys you put up with - but you are the one putting up with them.

 

why should some guy you met to fuck you respect you at all?

 

stacy you are smoking! i will be your toy! dont let this guy put you down like that. i would find another guy to play around with. good luck.

 

This is the exact reason I don't have sex with men I don't know. A lot of guys just don't respect women like they should. This guy is a jerk, you should dump him. Find kind man who likes you for your personality and will look into your eyes instead of at your body when you make love. They're hard to find, but they're out there.

 

well i know him well. i know hes a bit of a asshole. i thought he would relax with me cause i have that innocent look to me, and i have a body. 98% of the time hes nice to me. i know i should look more, i will eventually get fed up.

 

Well, I know it gets to you sometimes, just don't forget that you could make it stop if you really wanted to

 

Do you see how different these two statements are about this new dude? He certainly doesn't seem like a very fun and down to earth guy to me.

I mean, c'mon, look at how sexy and beautiful you are. You deserve better then some guy who talks such trash to you.

You should be able to have any guy you want for a FWB. It sounds like you're limiting yourself to guys you already know, or guys from your neighborhood. The only thing I can tell you is that there are plenty of nice guys out there who would love to bang you, but it's up to you to find one.

 

It's like that old Dice Clay line:
She say's "Will you respect me in the morning?"
I said "Bitch I don't even respect you now."

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

Errr Aim Higher

 

http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=413279&f=51

just call me cupid.

 

I think this guy may be too young for the OP... he's 16. Isn't that statutory rape?

 

"Only if they get caught", says the constable :bobby:

 

hmmmm....how do i put this delicately.

fucking 300lbs?!

you are desperately (and i put that lightly) looking for male attention, and it's obvious. so, i'm sure it's obvious in real life. that's why you are treated this way.

have some damn respect for yourself and keep your legs closed until a nice, attractive guy comes along. it won't happen until you stop being desperate.

 

"Only skinny people are worthy of your attention"

 

she could do better, is all i'm sayin!

 

"Skinny people are better"

 

you must be fat. look, she said it herself, he's not attractive. she pointed out hiw weight. why would she be with him?

 

Because we should respect all people.

Although she's silly for sleeping with him when he treats her like that.

 

And you must like standing in front of tanks.

It sounds more to me like she said he isn't what others would consider attractive.

You proved her right (without even seeing him)