Dick freaks me out.

I only recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend, I've fallen in love with sex. It's amazing. I'd have my boyfriend do me all day if I could but I have an issue...my boyfriend wants me to go down on him. I've never done something like that and to be honest the thought freaks me the hell out. I don't know why but it does. I'm scared I'll do something wrong and embarrass myself or I might hurt him...which is ridiculous. Even touching it makes me nervous which is stupid considering he's regularly putting it inside of me. I think the hygiene part and the thought that it's been inside of other women turns me off too. My boyfriend is very clean and healthy...I just...I don't know. Has anyone else ever had an issue like this?

 

People have been doing it everyday for thousands of years. So long as he isn't infected with everything you are good. Then again it's your world boo, the rest of us just live in it.
You don't gotsta taste da sausage if ya don't wantsta.

 

If you cant break his fingers by holding hands. Chances are you cant break his cock either..

 

if you love him youll do it ...NOW !!!!!!!!

 

I wouldn't want to suck that thang either!.....;-D

 

Chances are the majority of men you sleep with will have had their dicks inside someone else at some point in their lives, unless you take to molesting young boys.

 

Don't do anything you don't feel ready to do, and tell your boyfriend that. It is not offensive, he will understand if you tell him how you feel. I can't say I relate to going down on him because that turns me on like crazy but I was the same with touching his cock at first and gradually he taught me to hold it more firmly without being scared. Watching him do it first did help a lot, in many ways... Really, just taking the time to look at it and admire it, creates a bond in a way. Trust me, one night just tell him that you want to learn about his hotspots and get him to show you how he likes it to be touched etc. It will seem less intimidating afterwards. Also why don't you suggest a sexy shower session for both of you, then afterwards you may feel less grossed out about the idea of going down on him. Good luck!


P.S. STILL, remember do not do anything you are not comfortable with. Not all girls like to do that. Just as not all guys like to give oral.

 

Practice on a bananna or some other appropriately formed piece of produce till you feel comfortable going through the motions without tearing the skin on the veggie or whatever.

Feel free to post pictures here so we can give you further pointers.

 

OR,

If he's hung like a Rhino, get some of this stuff,,,

http://republicofbacon.com/2011/11/23/jds-bacon-lube/

Then just imagine yourself trying to swallow a pork tenderloin all in one gulp.

 

You can break a dick?
Like snap it?

 

I have heard of Penile Fracture...........

 

No.. But I wouldn't recommend trying either.

 

So... gee that post was a while ago wasn't it. You'll all be pleased to know since my original post I have explored many things with my boyfriend. I now have a hard time keeping my hands and mouth OFF his penis. Just the thought of rubbing his hard on is enough to get me going. So yes. It turned out fabulously. And apparently I give really good head. He was shocked when I said I'd never done it before, which was the honest truth. Nom, nom, nom.

 

Congratulations.

 

chur.

 

It all worked out in the end.

 

Maybe you freak Dick out, too....

 

It did, it did! And nah, I think Dick likes me.

 

well good for you. I was just about to say good luck with finding a man who will live without that... Maybe thats just me though...

 

It's sort of possible, although very rare. However, it's not a physical break in the same way as you might break a bone - it's more a case of a multiple rupturing of the blood capilliaries across one or more of the 3 sections that form the erection. Painful but, like a bruise, or a muscular sprain, sorts itself out over time.