difference between...(penis question)

ok, i have had my fair share of guys, which none of them ended up being good relationships, and we rushed into the sex way to fast, although ive always had a very spiritual understanding towards sex. but to my point, my bf that i am with right now..(almost a year) we have just started to discuss sex, and we are going to take it slow..but..its the fact that, unlike most guys or what is mostly portrayed in media, i guess you could say he isn't "capped" at the top, or..the excess skin was never tucked in by the doctor..which of course is a choice your parents make as a child. i know it shouldn't..but this is something that is on my mind and somewhat bothering me...since..its something im not used to...

 

im confused... what exactly is the deal? he is circumsized? or no? or not all the way? or this has nothing to do with circumsision and i missed the point? because i really am curious, i just didnt get it.

 

are you saying he is or isnt circumcised? Anyway it sounds like your saying he isnt. Dont worry its perfectly clean as long as he washes it right.

 

well no he wasn't circumsized, so he still has all the excess skin...such as when a child..being male is born the penis doesn't really look like what i think it looks like now..it had the excess skin. then the doctor tucks that skin, and thats what makes the penis have the "head" look..now do you understand?

 

yeah. (more of a snip than a tuck, though)


but i have never been with a circumsized guy. im sure the sensation is pretty much the same. just a new experience!

 

its called foreskin yeah, whats wrong with it? Cutting it off is called circumsizion. It doesnt cause any hygene problems, only if you NEVER ever wash the thing. I've lived with an uncircumsized penis for 19 years now and it hasnt caused me any problems ever.
When the penis is flacid the foreskin will cover the glands, and when the penis is erect the skin will probably still be able to cover the glands but the guy will probably move it under the glands anyway because the glans are the sensitive part that he wants stimulated, not covered by his skin.

 

Actually it's not "excess skin". The skin at the end of the penis is called the foreskin and it's very important. Most men have their foreskin, but some cultures choose to remove it at birth, which is called circumcision.

The two main cultures where circumcision is popular are Jewish (who remove it for religious reasons), and Americans, which is probably the category you fall into.

Americans remove the foreskin because they used to believe it "cured" masturbation. If a young boy had no foreskin, they thought he wouldn't be able to pleasure himself (which was seen as harmful to health a century ago) so they decided to start removing foreskin at birth.

American medicine has changed, and masturbation is no longer seen as harmful and circumcision is no longer seen as the "cure". Ironically, recent polls have shown that boys who are circumcised are more likely to masturbate!

To this day, circumcision is still popular in America, reenforced by the myth that it is cleaner. This is not true — the foreskin is there to keep the head of the penis clean and protect it. Another myth is that the forskin is useless, which is definitely not true. In fact it is now realised that the foreskin has 12 different functions, most importantly of all — pleasure. During sex, a circumcised man only feels a fraction of the pleasure an uncircumcised man feels.

Circumcision is also extremely cruel. Babies feel pain a lot more than adults do, and the pain of having part of your genitals chopped off is so unbearable that it can give the baby serious trauma. It also interferes with the development of the baby's penis and can cause it to grow in an unnatural way. The foreskin of a baby is melded onto the head of the penis and is not supposed to be retracted until the boy is many years older. Perhaps most importantly, circumcision negates the baby's free will. Nobody should have an unnecessary, physically and mentally harmful operation without their consent.

If you watch a lot of American porn, you'd be forgiven for thinking it's normal to circumcise, but fewer than 1 in 6 men are circumcised. If you live in America and you have a baby you must break this horrible tradition and tell other people to break it!

I live in the UK by the way. Virtually nobody here is circumcised.

 

not circumsized penis' work pretty much the same as the regular ones when it comes to stimulation. From my (little) experience, uncircumsized guys are easier to overstimulate, especially during oral.... with my ex, I just pulled his foreskin up a little when I would perform oral, so it covered part of his head again, preventing over-stimulation. hurrah! Just ask him what feels good, maybe get him to masturbate for you, and you'll find out what turns his cranks.

 

Im so confused. What does an uncircumsized peinis look like? Were is this skin? Why is it there? I believe I am circumsized. As well as most of my friends.

 

ok if the end looks kinda like a shroom your not circumcized, if it doesnt than you are circumcized or you have a really bad std and need to get it checked out

 

ok..that makes it way more easier to understand...thanks