do you have 2 or more separate groups of friends that you don't combine together? how are they different? if u act differently when with them, in what ways are you different? in high school, i used to have a gang of stoners, and now they all went in separate directions, me being the middle man. one of them started hating the one i'm closest with which made the separation. that separation is the only thing that really irks me about being with either friend, even though the hate is more like a one way skreet. my best friend, C, is the gayer group of peeps, and i act more flamboyent around him cuz i feel more comfortable, and its just our sense of humor. that flamboyency is why my other group of friends doesnt like him. my other group of friends stems from my friends J and A, they're both gay but they play it cool. theyre the ravers, and we all listen to electro all the time. we joke about black jokes and shit, and we show more affection towards one another.
two different high schools is the cause of my multi-groups. then i have friends outside the groups, couple of friends from the navy i stay in touch with, my middle school friends from NY. two of my friends were in a car accident, and each blamed the other, and let it destroy their friendship, but another friend of ours lost his father, and both showed up to the funeral. it was awkward to see them avoiding each other, and everyone else had to drift between the groups.
back in high school I had several groups. now that I am older most of us have moved and done different things but I still am friend with several people from the different groups but were not groups anymore. but I had friends that were athletes ( wrestling, football, hockey). I chill with a stoner group at this one house we would always chill at. just a bunch of good friends always chilling. I'd say the best group and most fun. I had another stoner group of friends that were street kids and we would go all around the city smoking. Also I had neighborhood crew which was another whole group of friends. I also was with a group of friend that were a mix of video gamers and people into computers. I also was friends with a group of gang members. yeah I know not really good people but they were chill with me and I had went to lots of good parties with them. I never joined the gang just chilled and smoked and partied with them. did run into the cops a lot when chilling with them but still have never been rolled.
Um the real life group and the online group, plus, I guess I'm sorta in my sister's group of friends (and she's sorta in mine) Don't act too different, really. Slightly more candid online.
I currently only associate with one friend. All of my other friends turned into meth addicts or I just grew apart from them. In high school though, I basically just hung out with stoners and gang members, but I stopped hanging out with all of my high school friends after I joined the army. I have never really acted differently around any of my friends though. They all get the same "me".
Yea I'm just me-too much work trying to be someone else. I do have some very different groups that I hang out in. But I do like to mix some of my friends from one group to another-some of my work friends have met my squatter friends. And in general when I mix some of the people form one group with some people from another group everyone gets along real well. And some are friends now without me. I'm good friends with people who have certain traits and principles-and no matter which group they are in-they're a lot alike. Just different sides of the railroad track. I have no problem mixing some of my work friends (a law firm) with my squatter friends. I think there are some people on here-very different from me-who'd I enjoy being good friends with if we lived closer.
I had a couple group of friends in high school.. One was a stoner/drug group, and the other was more of a drinking group. I still talk to both groups, but am more in touch with the drinkers group. I had a group of girlfriends the past couple years in college, but they all went away and I don't talk to them anymore.. and i'm also kind of part of my brother's group of friends. I didn't really act different at all between the groups.
I'm in high school now, and I have multiple groups of friend's. There's one group that's from my school, and we usually just chill, go shopping, and sometimes we'll drink or smoke. Then I hang out with the stoners/partyers. They all go to different schools, different ages, but some of them have hung out with each other, so I guess sometimes you can combine.
I have a few friends that I don't hang out with together because they either don't like each other or one gets on the other's nerves. More often the friends I smoke or trip with usually don't hang out with my sober/drinking friends. That's usually because my stoner/tripping friends aren't into going to clubs, playing pool, ect like my sober friends.
