dirty photos

Since I first met my bf he has been taking dirty pics of me, and after I had been with him about 2 months he suggested that we post some of them on an amateur porn site.

I thought it ws hot so we started posting pics, and it was really hot seeing my pussy on a website and getting comments from guys who were jerking off. I actually started shaking with excitement the first time I saw it.

But I am a bit worried, am I being dumb to do this? I mean what are the chances that someone recognises me?

Also my bf keeps trying to get me to do more pics, I know he wants to post shots of my face, but I don't want that. And we used to choose pics together, but now he has started posting pics by himself to another website. I had a look at what he posted and the stuff he says in comments on the pics is really degrading.

I actually like the naughty feeling of showing other guys some of these photos, but I feel like it's getting out of control.

What should I do? Am I worrying too much?

 

If you havnt shown your face who is going to recognize you. Unless you have a noticeable scar or tattoo.

 

Soo... hypothetically, where would one find these fore-mentioned photos?

 

Only do what you are comfortable with. Things do have a way of coming back to haunt you later in life, so think of the consequences and choose wisely.

 

The only pro is that you get a quick short term buzz for it, whereas the cons are its there forever, your relos or friends may find it, and 20 years from now one of your sons friends finds it and you are kicked out of the PTA

 

^this

 

Hi pensfan x

I worry that someone will recognise my clothes or jewellery. Plus it's not like no one ever saw me naked before, what if one of my ex recognises my body? What if they see these and decide to post the photos that they took?

 

Don't think we're allowed to post links to porn here.

 

Hi livinafantasy x

Thats the problem! To start with I felt like I could choose and only post stuff that I am comftable with, but now it seems like he has all the control.

 

Hi vanilla gorilla x
Yeh this is the kind of thing that worries me :-( I think I just did it for the quick thrill.

 

Don't worry so much. A lot of people wear the same clothes/jewlery. If there's no clear faces pics, there's no way 20 years from now anyone will recognize you. Infact, I watch porns all the time with women who have bodies like my ex's, and I don't automatically assume it's them. There's a lot of people out there.

 

I wouldn't worry there's so much porn out there so many sites so many people your just another face in the crowd so to speak. What's done is done once it's out there it's out there. Sounds like y'all need to do some talkin. I wouldnt want your face out there unless u decide to go PRO?
Come on you are the woman lay down the law. LOL

 

Yeh I guess I'm worrying too much. Wow imagine if guys are still perving these photos in 20 years time lol! That would actually be pretty cool ;*

 

I have made it pretty clear how far I want to go with this - but he still wants me to do more photos that show more.

 

That reminds me of the episode of Steptoe & Son, where they get hold of an old 'What The Butler Saw' machine, and the reel turns out to be one where Old Man Steptoe is the star.

To any non-UK residents who are unfamiliar with the Steptoe & Son TV sitcom series, it would be well worth finding on Bit-Torrent & downloading. Alternatively it can be seen on YouTube, although in several files:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uduYAFXjBaM"]1/3 Steptoe & Son...Porn Yesterday - YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nkQYanprkpM"]2/3 Steptoe & Son...Porn Yesterday - YouTube
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i0Phsl_E18Q"]3/3 Steptoe & Son...Porn Yesterday - YouTube

 

I was impressed by the OP angle of him taking control of the posting/commenting.

What started as the OP saying "see my naughty bits, have fun" has turned into the BF saying "see my girlfriend" and looks like its moving towards "see what I can make my girlfriend do".

The OPs face and reputation is one thing. Her relationship with her boyfriend is another.

(BTW, does he have any pictures with your face that he says haven't been shared with others?)

 

I'd get rid of the boyfriend. He is using you.

 

I wouldn't worry so much, the chances that someone you know seeing the photos are slim and if your face isn't revealed then they can never know for sure.

An old friend of mine sent naked photos to a guy she was seeing, he then proceeded to send these photos around to a lot of people, he didn't say it was her but she made the mistake of taking the photos in a full standing mirror that clearly showed her bedroom and we were there frequently. She still denies it was her

 

I wouldn't be worried about the photos that are already out there, like MikeE says its the relationship with the boyfriend that seems to be the issue.

He needs to respect what you are willing to do and how far you want to go - and if he won't then I think it would be a good idea to give serious thought as to whether you want to be with this guy.

I always think its great when women are open and self confident enough to share in this way, its just sad that some people will abuse that trust and post photos/videos on the internet without the others knowledge or as revenge.

 

Yep, and we used to refer to each other as bf and gf online. But now he rarely says I'm his gf when he posts and instead he calls me things like "the dirty bitch", "poor little slut", "little ****".

I don't know if we can save the relationship :-( he's a good bf in other ways, I think he has just gone a bit ott with this.

He does have nude pictures of me with my face showing, but I don't think he has shared them.