I had a befuddling dream real life background: I'm in the final stages of divorcing person S after few years of hell. A few weeks ago I met person H. Since, she's been in my thoughts every moment. I believe I've fallen for her (love, infatuation, adoration, etc - not sure yet what it is - but I want to be with her). I can't see S yet, as she herself, to the best of my knowledge, is going through divorce too. The dream: I am in a state of prayer in a place of worship. A distance behind me, H and a group of people I'm acquainted with sit on a bench. S is sitting in a corner, silent and reserved. In the middle of the bench, there is a commotion of people chattering. They're saying that I should divorce H!! I say to myself, while still in prayer, well how do I divorce someone I'm not married to?? I'm sure H also heard them. Then I intended to finish prayer and talk to H about what people just said to see what she thinks!! The end. clues?
Confused?? So am I lol. You said YOU are in the final stages of divorce with S. then you cant see S yet, as she herself, to the best of my knowledge, is going through divorce too. Sooooooo what???? lol As far as the dream I think your subconsious is scared to get into another relationship especially with H because you feel with your friends and family being such a strong influence in your life you will eventually suffer hearache from this. if youo had a little more to go on i could lend a little more.... But that is a tricky one Peace
I don't consider friends and family to have a strong influence on me. In real life, I'm quite independent. I'm actually very resistant to any unsolicited input from people around me. I only consider what they might have to say after I've thought things through, and I only ask a select few I trust. Does this help? Anything specific I can add to help you lend more? thanks.
