Assuming you always knew you were gay, did you ever experiment with the opposite sex? Many decidedly straight people have had homosexual experiences, but do gay people have heterosexual experiences just as much?
I did as a young man, at first I thought I needed to try straight sex and maybe I'd become straight. It was physically fun but there was no soul connection. With a guy theres a soul connection that compliments the sexual connection. I liked being connected with another human being, it sweetens the flavor of life.
Yep, gays do experiment. Problem though is that many gays have experimented with the opposite sex mainly to 'fit in' and because we were taught that's the way we are supposed to be, not because we wanted to experience the 'other' side.
A couple of times at 19 and again at 21. Neither were girlfriends, they were flatmates at the time, both had more boyish figures and were flat chested, both knew I was gay I know some gay guys just prefer guys and don't have much trouble getting with the girls, but me, so not interested in big boobies, too mumsie for me, and vajayjays - yuck yuck yuck Almost as much of a deterrent is that thing especially at that age, where they get angry at themselves for being horny or maybe just angry at having to initiate, but what the hell? Anyway, I'm 36 next month, so 15 years since the last trip over the fence and pretty sure its not going to happen again, so no I dont experiment, guys are just too darn hot
^^ totally agreed. although sometimes i do get slightly aroused from girls, it happens rarely and when they do certain things. when the clothes come off....YECH!! and i can never imagine kissing them...*shudder* guys are a different story...
Agreed, guys are so hot and as earlier, agreed, I cant get that absolutely blissful soul connection with a woman, without that it kinda sucks... and yeah I agree, is pretty knarly down there on their side of the fence whoa I forgot about that. When I was 16 I went down on a girl I was dating at the time and learned this neck of the woods was not for me, actualy it was quite nasty and a turn off. Soon afterwards I met my first boyfriend and found I had no problem with the cock.
Never have done, kinda been thinking about it the last couple of years but it seems like a lot of effort. I'm wondering if that's one of the reasons actually. It's probably a lot harder to get a woman if you're an openly gay guy than to get a man if you're openly straight!
Unlike Katy Perry's song, I kissed a girl and felt completely indifferent. The only difference it made is that if i was kissing a guy, there would be at least some possibility of wanting to carry it on. Boobs do nothing for me...nothing sexual anyway. I find them intriguingly fun though, although i have no idea where that comes about. But no, as for anything lower than the waste...no thanks. Been close to it, but that was in a threesome moment and I was in it for the Bisexual guy. I steered clear of her XD He did a good job of keeping my mind off of it. But yes, Gays do experiment and probably dislike it as much as "100%" straight people do. ~G xXxXx
Caught HPV while experimenting with a girl earlier this year, dont do it, straight sex is not all it is cracked up to be!
You can also get HPV from a male. It's not a uni-sexual disease. It's more dangerous for women because of the risk of cervical cancer, but men get it equally as often.
what you talking about man? a pussy is a dark scary place, they freak the shit outa me, they feel kinda nice to stick your dick in but lordy... tried eating one out once, nearly vomited in the damn thing.
lostdazed in time, so ebcause u nearly vomited in one u called urself gay, but u say it feels nice to stick ur dick in, u gays make me laugh
To tell the truth, at 30 I'm still not entirely sure if I prefer one sex over the other. They both have different things to offer. Women's bodies tend to be more attractive overall... I mean, come on, a beautiful woman is amazing to look at, but there are some pretty sexy guys out there too. I don't have issues with vaginas-- they're nice, and I really enjoy going down on the right girl... and I like nipples and sucking on them, so that's a plus. It's a great feeling to be able to lay on a woman's chest and suck her nipples for a long time. I don't get grossed out by anything sexual-- on the other hand, with girls it's exciting because it's something I don't necessarily see, smell, touch everyday... and it's usually very pleasant. But I suppose guys are different too in their own ways. There's less drama with guys (well, the guys I go for-- I can't stand those ultra-femmy party-person queen types) and overall the guys I've been with have been far less likely to be enormous bitches about stupid little things, and they tend to be more understanding of where I'm coming from, but that could be just luck. Actually, I feel pretty much the same when I'm with guys or with girls... but gay sex strikes me as a little more dangerous than hetero. Still, I suppose it's still enjoyable. I think it's possible to have meaningful connections with either sex-- but I tend to play different roles in different kinds of relationships. I've been in love with women before but I don't think I've been in love with a guy, on the other hand, this could be just because I haven't met the right one... and there are lots of guys out there who are very warm and caring and patient, and that's a big plus. I really just think both kinds of relationships offer a completely different dynamic and it's hard to compare the two or decide which one is preferable.
