Do men ever get enough sex?

I want to know if its possible for a man to have as much sex as would please him...and are there men that have this? Men are always talking about not having enough..can you ever have enough?:gossip:

 

Yes

 

No.

 

A couple goes to a marriage counselor and talks to the man and wife separately.

Man: We hardly ever have sex, maybe twice or three times a week.


Woman: We have sex constantly, like two or three times a week!


In the beginning of an serious relationship; yes. With my 3 long term partners it was the same with each: In the beginning tons of sex, several times a day (I hit the 7 or 8 times in a day with all 3). My current wife use to give me blowjobs everyday plus we would fuck constantly.

Sadly, again with all three this phase did not last. Somewhere around the 6 month to 1 year point the sex slowed down. None of them had a good reason, just lots of excuses:


"My work schedule is different and I am tired all the time"
" I'm just not happy with my body right now"
"These new meds have me messed up"

and so on

Who knows what hormonal changes go on with a woman.

Not only quantity but quality suffers as well. The moments when unexpectedly she just starts sucking your cock or wants to do it multiple times evaporate as well.

With my wife, we had this ongoing problem for the 1st 10 years of our marriage where she just didn't make sex a priority. After lots of arguments, I finally got through to her that she had to make sure we had regular good sex. Today we do, although ironically I now only feel like it 2 or 3 times a week which is fine by her.

Relationships are a job. Not easy. If Sex is more than 50% of the equation then it probably won't last. It's way more important to find someone who is a good companion, good parent and someone you can trust and consider your best friend. That's why relationships aren't such a good idea for 20 somethings. They still have so much growing up to do.

 

Why do women think that they dont crave sex like men do its such a lie

 

Can you ever have enough joy?

If sex isn't one of the biggest sources of joy and pleasure in your life, you aren't doing it right.

The right amount, depends on the people involved... but only in terms that they should have somewhere close to the same appetites. At least for a long term relationship. Can a ltr survive with there being a mis-match, yeah, but it sure adds a lot of stress that doesn't need to be there.

If the people do match up in terms of sex, then sex can remain just as fun and exciting 8 years into a relationship as it is in the first six months. I would assume longer, but wouldn't want to do so right now... ask me next year and I will likely say 9...

One of the biggest problems people have is that they don't have open and honest conversations with their partners about sex.

 

Nobody can have enough sex IMO. Fuck, I need to stay out of this section.

 

When your cock is red and bleeding?

 

I think about sex constantly but only need it once aday

 

I do agree with this in part.

We all know when starting relationships that the sex is always at its best. It's new.

In long term relationships yes it has ups and downs.

But in our relationship at this time we are having sex as much as we can. I wake him up with a bj, sex at night every night sometimes marathon's.

So yes they can get enough sex if they have the right partner.

 

yes! I hate the stereotype that all men are sexual pigs. In most of my relations the women have wanted it far more than i have...

 

Men are not sex pigs

Women also like sex we know these points.

Both points are true and fair.

However I would say sex drive wise men want it more often then women in more cases then not.

SO with that being said there are the men who just expect the women to keep a constant rate of sex up at all times to create a happy sexual environment.

But can any one person possibly fulfill such sexual needs. I mean there is a lot of complaining in mens worlds about sex...but lets be realistic..will you ever be happy with what you get? You guys always want more.

so you fuck a girl 8 times a day for a long period of time sorry to tell you she's going to be bored off her ass after a while...lol

We just expect too much of each other in these relationships. no one person can fulfill such a need in/for someone else. We live in a world of false expectations. And I'm not saying women should never put out I'm jsut saying men who have that kind of sex drive should maybe stay single lol because you set yoruself up for dissapointment. Or just shut up and be happy with what you have when you have it. There are other things to do in the day besides fuck. <---- yep I said it lol


its as addictive as drugs...everything in moderation.

 

Why bother asking a question you've already decided you know the answer to?

 

you dont want more?

 

I have yet to meet a man satisfied and not bitching to his friends at some point about a lack of sex...even if the girl is giving it up. (( I HAVE YET TO MEET ONE ))

 

youve never met me...

 

you are 22. wait till you are in your 30's to 40's then think about that. getting pussy at 22 is super easy. lol

 

I've been married 21 years and have never complained to my friends about lack of sex. My wife has been very generous :2thumbsup:

 

i dunno i havnt been laid in maybe 4-5 months. i really think sex every once in a while is plenty

 

Then you haven't met my hubby b/c I can tell you he gets enough sex.... there are times where he tells me not tonight.