Do men repress rape instincts?

well....? , i am wondering, with all the testosterone.

 

wow, heavy question. i was a rape counselor for more than 15 years. first off rape has nothing to do with sex, it is a control and abuse method used to dominate the victim. but i would love to hear some responses to this great question, very interesting. there is so much date rape here in california, especially in the college towns., i contribute that to too much alcohol and "date" rape drugs being used and the macho attitude at many of the fraternity parties.
hippiewise angel

 

I think I can safely say 95% or so of men don't need to repress any rape instincts.

 

Thanks for the replies, i wasnt nessercairly reffering to the control or victim / psychological aspect.. i was reffering to the sexual desire...

as in... 'i really want to fuck her..maybe i could use physical force...'

 

I try to repress rape instincts.

 

yeah so do i. but im trying to find out if men do. ssshhh


hippie wise, rape counselor....eeek..... thats heavy.

 

I actually don't have any rape instincts. I don't believe in using physical force to have sex with somebody. I believe in the mutual enjoyment.

 

Well i dont think i would call it rape but i do sometimes see a woman and think to myself i would love to just walk up to her and bend her over and have my way with her. not in a domanating kind of way but in a desire way. I just think that its natural to want something you cant have. i would never act on a thought like that and deep down i dont even think i could but the desire is there. i hope this didnt sound to mixed up its hard to explain it.

 

men repress the desire to just grab womens boobs, crotches, and asses perhaps but to jsut grab and fuck i don't think really needs repression. i think most men wanna fuck most women, but wouldnt want to fuck them if they didnt want to get fucked...most men want the women to want to fuck them
well...thats the way i see it....

 

well said [applauds]...i think thats what every girl/woman wants to hear
how old r u anyway?

 

Thanks for applauding. *bows*

Well, I'm 29.

 

In a word - yes. I'm as nice a guy as you'll find, I'll never do that to a girl - EVER, but I've thought about it. Especially once when this one chick was being an absolute *BITCH* to me, I thought about it.

But the difference between this, same as murder or stealing, etc. is that people who are "right" in the head have a switch that tells them what's right and what's wrong. So the moment I thought about it, that switch turned on and said "Bad boy! Don't even think about that." while on a rapist/murderer/etc. they lack said switch.

 

meh I've thought about it a few times, but can't even think of hurting a woman without feeling bad, I'm mostly just repressing killer instincts

 

Exactly most women want to believe in bullshit...

When I bone a girl then she'll know all about it ... great sex , hot sex is athletic sex , occassionally forceful sex. The guy who said that he sometimes thinks of bending over a hot chic he sees and just laying into her without saying a word - spot on. I've done this many times in a relationship

To say that rape has nothing to do with sex is so stooopid ... it's not a black and white thing , it's abuse sure , but I've seen so many mammals basically rape each other being raised on a farm an' all - u ever see ducks fuck ? UNREAL!

To put a final spin on my comments I worked as a bouncer for 2 years , have been groped SHEDLOADS of times by women without consent (or mutual interest because last thing I want/need is a chic who'd do that) and am totally into making women scream in pleasure not pain (which is why I've no interest in anal)

My ex gf put it well , "I like the way you work me over"... needless to say we spent more time screwin that talkin.

 

Hmmmm....sometime bouncer, steroid advocate, farm animal sex and a barely controlled rape instinct...and you're the worlds' greatest lover on top of all this.


You're all man Parnell, all man.

Something tells me you like NASCAR and Toby Kieth, as well.

 

LMAO ... ur from Ohio and you're calling me a redneck ???

I live in Munich Germany for the last 3 years , born in Ireland ... got two degrees . I'm hardly a steroid ADVOCATE - I dabbled in the field ... that goes with playing college rugby.

I've never seen a NASCAR race but I'm sure you could tell me all about that huh Clarence ?

Nice piece of post stalking however...

 

Yeah...Ohio is known for it's redneck population.

You've used roids...you made it a point to argue for them rather than against.

NASCAR is ignorant...I live in Ohio, not Tennessee. Ohio is not a southern state Mr. Geography.

I read various threads...why am I a stalker?

I'll win every pissing match you care to get into. Got any other dumbass points to make?

 

Ohio:
http://www.cnn.com/2004/ALLPOLITICS/11/03/prez.main/index.html

Where did i argue FOR roids ? I said I'd used them and that I did not experience negative sexual effects as a result of that usage. That is an observation , not a position (which is grounds for advocacy). How far did you get in school?

You have misrepresented various posts of mine (not made in this thread so presumably you looked for them - stalker) in you opening gambit. Where in my posts did I say I was the worlds' greatest lover or did you just pull that out of your ass as well.

 

oh god, as if red states have a monopoly on rednecks..there are plenty of fucking rednecks in blue states and other countries.

 

Ohio went for Bush...so did most states, genious. You have confused politics with geography, Mr. "I have two degrees". I'm guessing they're not in either of those fields.

You might want to read your own posts more closely. If you aren't pro steroids...then what are you? Get off the fence.

I'm on the same website as you...I'm bound to see your posts. If I was "stalking" you...I'd just PM you and bitch.

You're right, World's Greatest you are not...I was overly generous in my assessment., so I pulled it out of my ass.