Do you close the door?

How important is closure in your life? I'm referring to relationships, all kinds, friends, lovers, coworkers etc. If you feel that the crossroads have arrived in a particular relationhsip do you tend to drive though them and let things fade away in the mirror or do you put on the brakes and say good luck on your right turn as I'm going left?

 

I shoot them

 

I need closure.

 

awwww

an age-old question.

for this though, it's allll situational....

if a guy wants to beat the fuck outta me (as two have), etc., etc.

i slam the door on him.

if it's civil and it's just about moving on our own ways, i still talk to him. i cant NOT do that because i still care (truly) about the person.

basically....

it's ALLLL a heart thing. my heart and my intuition tell me what to do and i follow. i trust in that.

 

i need closure or im a mess for a long time

 

I'm actually good friends with a few past girlfriends.

 

Me too Jerry420.

I need to know for certain that it's the end, I hate not knowing.

 

I want closure, but I never can seem to get it. People just disappear from my life suddenly, never to be seen again.

 

i think im one of those people that disappear
i just move on and dont end things rightly

 

Alex, where did you run off to?!!!

 

im running down to TN to see you this time!

 

Wow!!! Too cool!!!

 

my doors stay open. i still have conversations with a few of my enemy's that used to be my closest friends and we had some pretty bad fights after we parted ways. whenever i see them, we talk and then go on our way. theres no more tension, but we could never be close friends like we were before.

 

i definately need closure. i hate when people just sort of disapear, i'd much rather have them say i'm mad at you because of such and such reason or whatever. then i would be able to get on with things without stewing about what i *might* have done wrong.

 

I need closure otherwise I am messed up for a long, long time.

 

i really, really need closure. if i don't come to closure, it haunts me. there are two people i will never get over. i never reached closure.

one of my best friend right now is actually an ex. we were able to maintain a friendship because we stopped trying to suffocate it in a relationship. but we still had to reach that point of finality; we had to shut one door firmly and with purpose before we could open another. and it didn't happen over night.

 

Though I need closure, people get sucked away from me all the time. I'll dream about them for years after till the friendships/relationships or whatever run their course in my head.

It's mostly because of moving all the time, but there are some people who I just ache to see again...like long lost family.

 

I have actually remained good friends with Holy Mary. It's not like it used to be but Joseph put an injonction. We've settled things out of court so I don't pay an infinite amount to her.

Jesus hangs around one week-end out of two. We shoot a few pools, change a few bottles of natural water to wine and party.

 

I find that it's extremely important to never let an ex-girlfriend have closure when I break up with her. She must never know the reason for being dumped.

That way she's in emotional turmoil which makes her pretty easy to nail for a few months as she tried desparately to get me back.

 

That too, my child...that too...