do you find bigger guys attractive?

I was browsing through this forum out of boredem and i saw how open everyone is, so i thought id join, and i want to ask the girls on here if they do or can find bigger guys attractive. I saw someone say in a thread that they think confidence is whats really attractive. Do you think thats a pretty common opinion amongst girls? if a picture would help ill post some, etc etc.

 

lol, i guess im S.O.L. on this one..

 

I go for personality before body size, to be honest. Only on the very large scale would I feel, well, not necessarily as comfortable around them. I mean like 300lbs+ of mostly fat not muscle. Its really an individual thing... depends on the two people involved.

 

i have really no problem with bigger guys. sure, its not ideal, but if he makes me laugh and hes got a good heart, then id have no reason not to fall for him. confidence is what always gets me.

 

looks can be important, but personality counts alot more. who would want a hunky guy whos thick as shit and crap in bed to boot? if a guy is open ,makes me laugh and feel comfortable then thats whats good for me. also its extra good if hes sexually comfortable with himelf.

 

How do you mean "bigger"? Muscular? Or flabby? Let us not mince things while we're at it. You're very vague.

 

both but more so 'flabby.'

 

my husband is fat and bald, and I couldn't love him more!

 

Obviously most women are going to find you less physically attractive.

If you really care that much, drop the weight.

 

Well, honestly, I do. I will not date a slender man. I think they look sickly. (some of course, not all) I was married to one, it was awful, thought I was going to break him, not only that, but having to lift everything above 50lbs was so annoying. So, now I look for guys who are large to extra large, but again that depends on the body type/build. There is a difference between being husky or stocky and being a fat slob who doesn't take care of himself. I mean if you don't care about yourself, how can you expect others to care about you? It just says something about your personality. The same is true for women though, don't get me wrong. And like everyone else posted here, I honestly do think personality is far more important. If someone can make me laugh, then I will probably like them and want to get to know them better.

But I just simply don't find myself attracted to small men. I mean sure, I think Matthew McConaughey is hot, but I don't look for guys with his build (and certainly not smaller).

But like many others have posted on various threads, there is someone out there for everyone, many someones I believe. There are guys who are not attracted to me because I'm not small, and I can't hold that against them. There are women who are more attracted to small guys, and some, like me who would rather be with a big burly guy.

And of course like spooner said, if you are talking about yourself, and your weight is what is bothering you, then you could try to lose it. Go over to my forum: deadbear's gym. There are plenty of us there (and I'll be there more often until I get a new job) who can help you out.

Good Luck!

 

I think a chubby guy is very cute example like John Belushi, or the guy who plays in Harold and Kumar who works at the buger drive through. Chubby guys remind me of teddy bears. But again its all about confidence, I think if a guy is confident (not cocky) it comes off more attractive, same for women.

But I have noticed that chubby guys seem to have more of a sense of humor.

Size doesn;t really matter to me anyways i liek scronny guys all the way to chubby guys, as long as their personality is good.

 

to me it's not so much if a person is chubby or not, but how they carry themselves, the confidence (not cocky, just someone who likes themselves) they have in themselves, how well they take care of themself. i don't like guys with a lot of muscle. i tend to be attracted to men who are medium/average build or have some meat on their bones. i always like a guy who has a bit of a soft tummy. i admit i am not very attracted to men who are extremely overweight, but not because they are ugly; to me it speaks of someone who isn't taking good care of themselves, and i am way more attracted to someone who is healthy. i also have my own issues with weight, and i never want to go back to being overweight, so i'd want a partner who'd want to stay healthy with me. i am bisexual and i tend to like my women on the thicker side: nice, curvy, round hips, full thighs, etc. i like big butts and i cannot lie...hehe. ok that was cheesy...but either way, i think everyone is beautiful in their own unique way, and it's how you show that inner beauty that brings out the outer beauty - i know men and women who when you look at them they are stone-cold foxes, but on the inside they are hollow, superficial, and often unkind people.

 

jack black is one of those famous chubby guys who is insanely hot in my opinion....meow!

 

OMG he is so hot!!! Shhhhh.... don't tell my boyfriend.

 

i think part of his hotness stems from his sense of humor - funny guys always get me...

 

Being a chubby guy myself, reading all these posts makes me feel good.

 

I don't like fat. I like 'em skinny.

 

no. but if my boyfriend gains some weight over the years as we travel our path together I'm not gonna dump him for it.

Fat Fat Flab is gross tho. Alittle isn't bad. Just not so much I'd be afraid to have sex with him

 

Which makes me wonder, how do sumo wrestlers have sex with their wives/girlfriends?

 

I don't know, but you're cute.