Is there anyone in the world that you actually hate? The difference between hating someone and just disliking them is you'll hate them in a year even if you don't see them again.
No, almost definately not. What's the point? If I don't see someone in a year, I'm only going to be "hurting myself" by hating them.
No, hate is a waste of time. Even people who fuck me over, I stay cautious... but I don't hate them, and more then likely I try to 'give them another chance'... which seems to happen a lot with some people. I let a lot of things slide, it's not my decision on how someone will receive punishment for their wrong. It's also sometimes things you must experience in life to learn lessons for the future. I like to let life take control, and roll with it. So many people don't agree with me, and tell me I should shun this person or that person, or inform me things just don't fall into place, but they should and will (from my experience). Life is going to take us to the same place, why struggle to get to your death or carry negative feelings until that day. There just isn't a point.
For hating this thread, you sure stuck around to post in it. haha Very much true, not many understand that... most of the people I know think me and my kids' fathers are weird for hanging out and stuff like that, but I see no reason NOT to. Me and the father of my youngest still live together, hang out, and all those types of things. I see him as my best friend, and I'll always love him, whether or not the 'relationship' in the aspect of 'boyfriend/girlfriend' works out, who knows, but I prefer to enjoy his company then talk about why our relationship fell apart, no one is perfect. Hell one time the father of my two oldest spent the night with me and TCF, my Mom called me crazy and so did other people. I don't understand people... and I don't ask them to understand me. :tongue:
Not me, I just don't bother with hate. Some people could die tomorrow and I wouldn't give a shit. Edit: I will admit that I started hating TCF and I realized that I was investing too much emotion in him and got over it.