Alright, so one afternoon my ex-boyfriend and I were having sex, doggy style. He's banging me really hard and really going at it, when all of a sudden, accidentally, he jams it in my ass, twice, hard. It burns a little bit and he stops and asks if I'm okay. I can't help but giggle, I mean, it was a little funny/embarassing and it did tickle some. He kind of stares at me with this disapproving look and says something to the effect of: "I don't think I like you when you're stoned." I admit, I was a little giddy from the weed, but I know I would have laughed regardless. And then he starts fucking me again. So I lie there with my face in the pillow, feeling empty inside and my booty still burning. How can he talk to me like that, physically hurt me, and then expect us to go on like nothing happened? After a while he stops. He can feel my tension and neither of us are into it anymore. He wants to know if I'm upset, and of course I was! We got over it, but our relationship ended soon after that. I don't feel like he ever respected me, but I probably didn't give him a reason to because at that time I didn't respect myself.
His comment was uncalled for; I don't think you were at fault. Would he rather that you cried instead of laughed? He's lucky that you didn't slap him for that. I would have gotten dressed right away and told him to go fuck himself if he wanted to get off so bad. I've had that happen before (wrong hole) and I probably laughed a little and was like, ouch! Wrong hole! Never did anyone get so shitty with me over it- I wouldn't put up with that shit. He sounds like an ass and you are probably better without him. Peace and love
Yes, I am better off now that he's out of my life. And I agree that I should have gotten dressed and told him to go away. It's what I would do now. The thing is I didn't respect myself at the time and would do just about anything to please him. And then he turns around and betrays me by cheating with his ex. I was a real messed up person when I was with him.
He's a tool, and its good you are rid of him. Accidentally in the Butt Twice? Once maybe accidental but twice? If he had any brains he should have appreciated that you laughed and not got mad....If it was me I would have talked about it with you and proposed we should actually try anal sex seeing that you didn't get annoyed. He sounds like a right dick!
Well, he was going really fast, so I guess that's how it ended up flopping in twice. I don't think I would enjoy anal sex too much.
Your boyfriend was inconsiderate in reinserting his penis in your vagina after inserting it by mistake in your anus. It is dirty in there, and his penis could have transferred bacteria from your anus to your vagina.
I don't want to scare you, but I've heard of weird diseases women have got in their vagina from wiping the wrong way. It sounds like this happened a while ago, but if you notice anything weird going on with your region, make sure you check it out so any infection doesn't get too out of control. "Keeping your genital area clean can prevent bacteria from entering through the urethra. Wipe the genital area from front to back to reduce the chance of "dragging" bacteria from the rectal area to the urethra." http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000505.htm Peace and love
Yeah you can get major bladder, urethral infections doing that. It isn't about having an 'unclean' ass, it's just that different bacteria live there and mixing them with vaginal bacterial can have horrible effects. Bladder infections are incredibly painful and easy for women to get. What he did was disrespectful, period. If a guy wants to have anal sex, he must ask first and be very, very gentle the first time or until you're comfortable. The comment he made cements his jerk-like qualities. You deserve the best, hun. Absolutely. He was nowhere close to the best. Don't settle for anything less than absolutely everything
