Hi, I really want to let this guy i know top me but i'm scared that it will hurt.........................I really want to let him do it to me though, so has anyone got advice about the best way for him not to hurt me ?
be relaxed! wow thats easier said then done. i know some guys who use poppers to help, or GHB. i suppose alcohol would do the trick aswell. also, as a top this guy should know some tricks not to hurt u. LOTS OF LUBE
it can hurt in the beginning as he first penetrates you. but it's the good kind of hurt, nothing impossible to tolerate. and it will abate soon after that and get really really good.
agreed - a short pain as your spincter is stretched and then a lovely feeling as it slides into you. A following penetration will be much easier. You have to try different positions to see what suits you both - once penetrated try changing around. Some guys love to dog-fuck you and if they have a downward curving cock then that is great cos it massages your prostate. An upward curve, then maybe they are better on top folr prostate massage, and of course that way you can also kiss while fucking. The first time | was fucked by a bi African dude with - yes it's true - a 10 inch cock he laid me on my side so that my spincter was not stretched but relaxed and then slowly penetrated me. Lots a lube and condom and it is good if your partners uses his mouth or fingers to loosen you first. I always douche before anal sex and wash thoroughly then anything goes. Ca you tell that i love it? Good luck, enjoy Simon:sunny:
Thanks guys, I have been talking to this guy and we are gonna do it on tuesday. I'm really nervous but more excited. He has told me not to worry because he wont hurt me and I have known this guy since I was a little kid. He is one of my older sisters best friends, so I really trust him.
I'm not getting the word. I'm getting the actual sphincter. That's what happens when you and your tattoo artist "brother" get drunk and decide to figure out what he's gonna give you. I don't have it yet, but just wait.
Hi Guys, Josh and i did it on tuesday and again yesterday:love: It was so hot. Josh gave me a bath first and then did things that were so cool. He got me nice and relaxed by using his fingers and tongue (So so hot) he used lots of lube as well.:2thumbsup: the best bit was when he was fucking me while jerking me off at the same time when i came it was the best feeling i've ever had. It didn't hurt cause he did it slow and gently. a bit sore the next day though. It felt awesome. So i say i'm bi but i think for now im gonna be a gay bottom because what josh did to me felt a hundred times better than then having sex with girls. Hes my boyfriend now:love:
aww that's cool. I love anal sex too. both ways, bottoming is good, but topping a guy is just as good, if on a different level. good luck. :sunny:
Hi guys, me again. One more question, what was all that white slippy stuff that was coming out of my butt when we did it. It wasn't his cum it was before that ? Is that supposed to happen ?
Considering what I read in your beautiful report of a lovely anal experience (congrats on having found a new lover, too! :love: ), it sounds like a mixture of the bathwater mixed with you lover's love juices (precum) and lube. Since you write that his cum would drip out of your butt afterwards, I reckon you weren't using a rubber? Risky... but I'm not going to judge. No need to be afraid or worried about something flowing from your anus after anal sex... after penetration, your sphincter is relaxed, so that juices will flow out. Again, congrats on finding your new lover and your nice experience. Wiggling bare toes, ~*Ganesha*~
I know it's stupid and I won't like the design when I get older. I'm prepared for that. I'll still cherish the memories that it carries, that my bro (if not by blood, by bond) gave it to me, that it was from the days when I was young and stupid and got a sphincter tattoo and wanted 40s in the cemetery to last forever.
Thanks, I dont think its bath water or joshs pre cum that comes out of my butt. Its like this white snotty stuff ! lol Yes i do let Josh fuck me without a condom. Hes only had one boyfriend before me and they were both virgins and ive only been with two girls, so we thought it was ok to go bareback. Its hot when he cums in me:2thumbsup: I know it sounds dumb but i think that i really love him and im his now and he can fuck me whenever he wants to.:love: Im really happy:2thumbsup:
it's his precum mixed with lube. the reason why it looks 'white snotty stuff' is because of friction. it can start to foam a little. i can't imagine what else it could be. except that he has some sort of STD and it's a discharge associated with that. on that note, sex without a condom is awesome; anal sex without a condom is fucking screw-my-brains-out-and-kill-me fantastic. but only do it with a person you really do trust. the fact that you've only been with girls doesn't mean you can't have an STD. how do you think straight guys contract that stuff? also since you are a bottom it is a much higher risk for you to get something from your insertive partner than it is for him to get something from you. that's something to keep in mind. and it's not just the HIV you have to worry about. the 'smaller' STDs like gonorrhea and chlamydia may not be lethal but they can cause complications that are far from pleasant to go through. so, don't open yourself to the possibility of contracting any of that without a solid enough reason. i'm not trying to lecture you, i have forgone condoms myself, sometimes on well founded reasons, other times just in the heat of passion. luckily i haven't caught anything, even after some stupid mistakes. best of luck.
I know the sweet and wonderful feeling of a man cumming inside me... it's a great experience, indeed! Tasting a lover's cock, swallowing his load when he cums first in my mouth, then having him fuck me and cum inside me... that's among the greatest sexual experiences I have had with men - and mutual too, since I came in him the same sweet twofold way. It sounds sweet, and not dumb at all. Enjoy your love to him, every second of it. To be honest, I envy Josh a little. :love: Light and Love to you, ~*Ganesha*~
